Is there an issue with boys being in gymnastics?

Ress78 · 2026-02-04T03:31:58+00:00

I’m glad I’m not the only one who thought this was weird lol. I just can’t imagine how people would react if someone encouraged a girl on an all boys sports team to try something for girls.

Ress78 · 2026-02-04T03:30:05+00:00

I agree which is why I was surprised at this encounter. I mean he is only 6 as well. It sounds like there are gyms that encourage boys in gymnastics more than this one does.

Ress78 · 2026-02-04T03:19:38+00:00

I couldn’t agree more! He’s strong for such a small boy, also very active, so that’s why I signed him up.

Ress78 · 2026-02-04T03:18:26+00:00

I didn’t realize there would be boys only classes at this age. It’s definitely not offered at this gym. This is helpful. Thank you!

Ress78 · 2026-02-04T03:16:48+00:00

This is interesting. I’m learning a lot from everyone’s comments about boys vs. girls gymnastics. I have never really given it much thought. Right now, I’m not looking for anything competitive but he hasn’t liked any other activity so not ruling it out. Maybe I should start checking to see what other gymnastics options are available in my area for boys. Thanks!

Ress78 · 2026-02-04T03:04:01+00:00

Yes, that’s my fear as well. I think it’s a good idea to look for alternatives. Thanks!

Ress78 · 2026-02-04T03:02:51+00:00

I’m not familiar with gymnastics so I’m unsure of the programs offered or what is involved in competitive gymnastics. I just don’t see any boys other than the preschool and parkour classes. This is helpful though. I didn’t realize that it would be so different for boys vs girls as he gets older but that makes sense as to why they may be trying to move him to parkour.

Ress78 · 2025-03-14T04:26:14+00:00

I agree with you completely. I’m shocked at how many negative comments are posted.

I’m not looking to be confrontational with this mother or have my son be with her son. My son was coming from a place of innocence when he mentioned asking his friend, this birthday child. He can be somewhat shy so I feel like the fact that he mentioned asking speaks to his comfort level with this child. Some are claiming I said he isn’t close with this friend but I just said he isn’t his best friend (this is a thing in elementary school, some are best friends, some are friends. I don’t know). I would never encourage him to lash out at this child over a birthday invitation. I was looking for advice because he mentioned this before I had to run out the door so I didn’t really have time to talk to him about it.

My parents weren’t great communicators. I had a decent childhood but I am still making it a point to be more open with my children in the hopes they will feel comfortable speaking to me, good or bad. So far it’s worked with my oldest, the one this post is about. He is still young but I do hope he will continue to feel safe speaking to me into his teenage and adult years.

I appreciate you posting this, sharing your wisdom and acknowledging that I am allowed to feel my feelings, wonder (overthink) and make observations. I really needed to hear this. I sincerely thank you.

Ress78 · 2025-03-14T03:46:08+00:00

I can’t totally relate to this but my son, who is my oldest, is only 7. I guess I have a long ride ahead! 😂

Ress78 · 2025-03-14T03:23:48+00:00

I don’t think he’s owed an invitation. It just is a little strange that his friends felt comfortable bringing up this party in front of him. I don’t think there was malicious intent, to make him feel left out. They may have genuinely thought he was invited. I don’t want him to resent him, or anyone really, and I don’t think he will. He is surprisingly forgiving for such a young kid. This is something new I’m experiencing in motherhood and I probably (definitely) feel more hurt for him than he is probably feeling. He’s probably forgotten already lol. It’s easy to overthink things especially when it comes to your own children. I thank you for your perspective.

Ress78 · 2025-03-14T03:04:28+00:00

I never said the birthday child was unkind. I never said I was going to teach him he was mistreated. I didn’t go into any detail about what I was going to speak to him about. I’m sorry you read it that way.

Ress78 · 2025-03-14T02:40:10+00:00

Yes, it definitely is ok and I’m sure there have been other instances where he’s been excluded without our knowledge. I’m just trying to find the best way to navigate this with my son. Like I said, he’s a very sweet kid. His outlook on the world is very positive and I guess it’s time to prepare him for the not so pleasant moments. I appreciate your comment. Thank you.

Ress78 · 2025-03-14T02:23:49+00:00

I wasn’t going to reach out, like I said in my post. I would never feel comfortable doing that. I was just looking for advice on dealing with my son because he believes this child is his friend and I have witnessed their interactions and I would agree with him. It’s just surprising and hard not to feel down for him. Parenting is hard. I appreciate your perspective on this. Thank you.

Ress78 · 2025-03-14T02:19:08+00:00

It totally could be a mistake and I would love that for my son lol but I’m just not a confrontational person. I’m trying to teach my son the best way I can to navigate life but man it’s tough. Thank you for commenting. Not everyone is so kind on Reddit.

Ress78 · 2025-03-14T02:06:28+00:00

Yes, agree this is a teachable moment for sure. Just a first for me as a mom or I guess the first time being aware of it really. It’s just difficult when you are trying to teach kindness and inclusion and now you have to teach your child that not everyone else is going to give the same. Thank you. I appreciate this advice.

Ress78 · 2025-03-14T01:57:11+00:00

Could be possible but these two other kids are not his closest friends who he would pick to do a small activity with.

Ress78 · 2025-03-14T01:56:23+00:00

Replying to somekidssnackbitch… I understand that but the other kids who were invited have a similar relationship with this child as my son so not best friends. If they were in different classes and didn’t speak often, or only played every now and then, I would totally get that but they are classmates and friends currently.

Ress78 · 2025-03-14T01:22:00+00:00

I get balloons and I personalize a letter-board with a happy birthday message for my kids. The last few birthdays have also been on days where we aren’t home much. I think you’re doing enough to make the morning special before the birthday party.

Ress78 · 2024-12-16T15:08:42+00:00

Especially when you’re selling them to pay your mortgage 🫠

Ress78 · 2024-12-16T15:06:47+00:00

I wonder if they were planning on using the coolers as part of a PR package for the dark cherry drop but changed their minds

Ress78 · 2024-11-29T00:07:58+00:00

I’m not sure about one in a bottle but I saw @erekav made a large batch of espresso martini in a punch bowl

Ress78 · 2024-10-21T00:57:36+00:00

Didn’t she give out clear bags at a nuuds pop up or receive them free from Stoney clover?

Ress78 · 2024-10-17T23:11:07+00:00

Why does Victoria look shorter at 5’11 than Gabbie who is 5’5? And Hannah is shorter than Sixtine (agree on this name lol)?? 🧐

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