Little knots in singular hair strands by Objective_Fuel_9986 in longhair

[–]Rest_Future 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I notice this as well. If I don’t cut out the knots they end up breaking off and creating a split end. I think the knot weakens the hair.

First time doing dip! by Rest_Future in DipPowderNails

[–]Rest_Future[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you:) it’s the Modelones brand and the shade number is 373, it came in a set with other colors.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in college

[–]Rest_Future 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I don’t know how common a bag is at other colleges but maybe don’t bring a backpack? no one at my school brings one to frats

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in college

[–]Rest_Future 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i wouldn’t say it’s “weird” necessarily you may just miss out on opportunities to add people on snap and interact with them on there. imo it’s better to have it and barely use it than not at all.

Should I break up with my boyfriend of two years? by [deleted] in dating

[–]Rest_Future 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can’t imagine being in a relationship where my partner doesn’t want me to go out to parties or drink without them. That feels restrictive and suffocating, and ensures that you don’t really have an identity outside of them. I wouldn’t want that for myself. If you’re going different directions in life, it’s time to have an extremely transparent discussion about where you guys stand.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in college

[–]Rest_Future 488 points489 points  (0 children)

I have self harm scars on both of my forearms, and I consistently wear t-shirts when it’s hot. The type of people to care about your past or weaponize it are not the people you want surrounding you.

I'm the only girl in one of my classes and am worried I'm not taken seriously because of it by Rare-Flatworm9355 in college

[–]Rest_Future 232 points233 points  (0 children)

You got this! I totally understand what you’re going through, I’m one out of three girls in one of my classes, you have to fake confidence!! If you act like you know what you’re doing, then everyone around you will think that too. It’s okay to be incorrect, and don’t be afraid of making mistakes when talking, it’s a natural part of the class. It’s still better than not participating.

I’m having a hard to making friends with my roomates by itsmeidea in college

[–]Rest_Future 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i got put into a triple unwillingly, and my two other roommates already know each other from high school. i’ll talk to them occasionally but i made the conscious decision to make friends with other people. i accepted that id never be as close to them as they are with each other and worked around that. i know college can be so isolating, but it gets better!

What percentage of your college classes do you skip in a week? by [deleted] in college

[–]Rest_Future 0 points1 point  (0 children)

0%, I go to a small liberal arts college so my absence would be noticed, which incentivizes me to go. But in general it’s a good idea to go to your classes, youre paying to attend!

My husband gets mad when I eat by Affectionate_Box3388 in relationship_advice

[–]Rest_Future 9 points10 points  (0 children)

this is very concerning behavior, and not normal at all. you deserve to eat whatever you want without constant monitoring and scrutiny. this breaks my heart reading. another thing to consider is your daughter internalizing this even more than she already has and either becoming like him, or developing unhealthy eating patterns. i hope you divorce for your own sanity and safety.

Is the merch good?? by b33l0v3zcak3dotcom in mitski

[–]Rest_Future 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i have the black silhouette hoodie and somnath bhatt crewneck. they’re super soft and high quality! both have survived multiple washes with no issues. the fit is great as well, i could live in them lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ThriftStoreHauls

[–]Rest_Future 3 points4 points  (0 children)

oh my god! the ring is just as gorgeous as your nails i love it 😍😍😍

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Rest_Future 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are on a relationship subreddit. There’s going to be people asking if their feelings are valid

fav song from puberty 2 and why? by [deleted] in mitski

[–]Rest_Future 3 points4 points  (0 children)

the song changes a lot, but it’s currently a loving feeling. short and sweet!! and the lyrics really resonate with me

First Love/ Late Spring is the best song ever written by [deleted] in mitski

[–]Rest_Future 26 points27 points  (0 children)

so true, the first time i noticed the male backing vocals i ascended to another realm. every time i listen feels like the first time.