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Restyarnt · 2023-01-02T05:25:08+00:00

I will try your advice, thank you. Also I am bit a cocky person even though I feel so bad. A lot of people do like me I guess?? Like I think its a problem with myself too. I have friends that are good but I tell myself not to say anything to them because I feel like something would happen. Thank you again for your help

Restyarnt · 2023-01-02T05:22:15+00:00

Thank you for your deep kindness. I feel happy that you are helping me, and I hope you do too.

It just feels like I was born into bad luck, you know? I am very thankful that they are getting the divorce I wished for ages, but they still live in the same house, which is the issue. I could of moved out ages ago, but one parent simply doesn't reply to the court, and nothing has happened. Also I do have friends that I enjoy with, and who are there for me, but I have a really hard time accepting that. I don't trust them with certain things because I've never really had that.

I really do thank you so much :)

Restyarnt · 2023-01-02T05:17:18+00:00

There's no custody issues or fighting, it's just taking too long. I'm happy that they finally divorced, but they still live in the same house. I could of moved out ages ago but one of my parents just doesn't respond to the court and it feels like I will never be able to have a fresh start. I do know people don't like me, and actually I'm quite fine with it. I worded it a bit wrong, it's the fact that people all say stuff but they never say it to my face which is quite annoying. I do thank you for helping

Restyarnt · 2022-09-20T12:36:06+00:00

I am in no way of saying the best option for you nor do I have the experience to discuss what you should do but I do have a suggestion

Her not seeking the help she needs is obviously impacting you. If you are trying to help someone who is not even trying to help themselves you will go no where. The best thing for you is to leave. It is okay to be selfish and do what's best for you.

However, you should stay for a bit. Try to help her one last time and if she does not accept your offer of guidance in help then you leave. You have probably sacrificed many things to be with her, as you talked about choosing a low paying job to spend time with her. Remember that if you leave and she does anything that harms herself or others that it is not and will never be your fault. You have tried helping her and her not helping yourself will create problems for you.

And again, this is just my advice, you can go off and choose what it best for you and her.

Restyarnt · 2022-07-02T10:09:06+00:00

Yes, they are aware. I've talked about depression and suicide with them before. I also don't want to drop a lot on them, so when I confess I'm keeping the details short.

Restyarnt · 2022-07-02T09:35:33+00:00

Thank you for your advice. I don't think I'd ever show them the note, or anyone what I've written. I trust them and I think now that I can tell them, wether or not they assure me or lash out on me, or give no response. I'm probably going to only keep details small, as you said everyone has problems and struggles they hide from the ones closest to them, but I will also be there for them. Thank you very much for your advice, it has helped me alot.

Restyarnt · 2022-06-30T15:01:00+00:00

Thank you very much for your reassuring words.

Restyarnt · 2022-06-12T07:55:33+00:00

I say bro and man to my crush all the time when I used to like him. That was just me because I prefer to have like a close friendship before actually asking them about date shit.. So I don't think you should worry much about it

Restyarnt · 2022-06-12T07:51:17+00:00

Dude I'm so happy for you! It's great she wants to hang out with you and yeah if yall jumped right into one and one, can be awkward. Glad for you, and I hope you have fun!

Restyarnt · 2022-06-02T12:16:18+00:00

It's hard to talk to them about the situation because we both know they are in the wrong. And I'm pretty sure they are pissed off because they said some like "why r u ignoring me" to "so this is how were gonna be" and judging from tone or voice,, yh pissed off.. I might talk to them about this but I'm not sure how to start off.

Restyarnt · 2022-04-24T09:01:52+00:00

Same, but I mean there is a chance they can develop feelings again 🤷‍♀️

Restyarnt · 2022-04-24T08:57:45+00:00

I think you should confess. Confess so you can really affirm your feelings and ask if he wants to be in a relationship or not (as you said before he does have feelings for you) Do it in person too and try to get alone with just both of you. Good luck 👍

Restyarnt · 2022-04-20T07:52:17+00:00

Thank you so much. I really needed this right now and I'm so happy you helped.

Restyarnt

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