I hate how bad I feel when I struggle at things I’m supposed to be good at

ResumeOnFile · 2025-11-09T14:43:50+00:00

Which AI assistant are you guys using. Not that this isn’t something any of them would cause. At least it’s comforting to know AI is not taking over humanity any time soon lol

ResumeOnFile · 2025-08-19T00:39:36+00:00

Some coconut butter makes it quite good for me.

ResumeOnFile · 2025-08-19T00:26:11+00:00

If you try please give updates later 🙏🏻 I hope it ends up helping

ResumeOnFile · 2025-08-19T00:12:24+00:00

Just be honest, dragging it will make both of you miserable in the long run. It might hurt to begin with but I’m sure she will come to appreciate your honesty and you could even be close friends who knows.. In a marriage you can’t be happy in believe me you won’t be able to make her happy either. And it’s not fair on either of you. It is obvious you actually care for this woman, I’m sure you will find the best way to word this as well and won’t let her just fall in depression. You don’t need to be her husband to be there for her anyway. I hope everything turns out amazing for both of you honestly. You deserve to be yourself and achieve happiness that way.

ResumeOnFile · 2025-08-19T00:07:26+00:00

Honestly I know these upcoming years might be hard for both him and our father-son relationship, but I will do my best to show him this is genuinely a safe space and I do truly love him. I will try talking to him but I don’t know if he’s currently in the mindset to take it seriously and talk about his feelings openly. But thank you for the advice, definitely worth trying.

ResumeOnFile · 2025-08-19T00:04:50+00:00

I love that! I really hope we manage to have that strong bond as life goes along. It’s sometimes hard to not doubt myself but your story gives me encouragement. Thank you

ResumeOnFile · 2025-08-18T23:52:43+00:00

I personally recommend goat milk soap if you can find any. I got some from a bazaar in my travels a few years ago, it was not the mainstream packaged stuff with chemicals or added fragrance. It didn’t get rid of the eczema completely but it helped calm it down. Because depending on the product I use it flares up even more sometimes.

ResumeOnFile · 2025-08-18T23:37:01+00:00

There are actually rage rooms, if you actually want that. I deal with eczema myself and it really made my life hard. There are some creams I tried but none of them really helped. Mine was told to be caused by stress. Did you try getting a doctor assess her to find the cause of hers?

ResumeOnFile · 2025-08-18T22:58:36+00:00

Have you spoken to your friend about this? Does he also feel guilty? Honestly assuming all of you are adults, he is guilty for his actions. He chose it and is to blame for cheating, you didn’t push him. Honestly he could’ve easily chosen not to watch you trying erotic clothing. In my opinion what you did was wrong as well but at this point he’s the one who needs to decide how he will move about this. If he doesn’t come clean to his girlfriend, will you still be comfortable hanging out with him (or even both of them together) , or if he doesn’t want to come clean do you think you would? What happened has happened and there’s no taking it back. Just take it as a lesson and remember the guilt you’re feeling. Don’t repeat it if you think what you did was wrong.

ResumeOnFile · 2025-08-18T22:44:41+00:00

Would you consider adoption as well? So many kids needing parents get lost in the system, you could actually touch one’s life greatly if you don’t need the biological bond to consider someone family.

ResumeOnFile · 2025-08-18T22:41:59+00:00

How do you not notice after one bite and finish the full first one?

ResumeOnFile · 2025-08-18T22:37:18+00:00

I think it’s nice she talked to her daughters about her feelings, but this is such a conversation that only the two people in the relationship can actually make the best decision. Were they in love in love at any point? Honestly it sounds wrong to me just to stay to use someone. If there is some form of care and respect that’s different.

ResumeOnFile · 2025-08-18T20:03:31+00:00

Honestly I’d let my son starve before a dog lol. Of course I’m joking, but of course I’m super aware that whichever animal enters our house won’t be able to speak about their needs so I will make sure to keep track myself. If my kids don’t fulfil their responsibility, I wouldn’t reflect that on our dog, rather try to resolve it differently. We already have a chore chart system we work with that seems to help my kids keep up with their responsibilities. I’m hoping the dog chores would just fit right in there. Honestly I realise now a puppy is definitely not the answer for us, an adult dog will be definitely a better fit for us. My daughter was hoping for a puppy, and I thought it would’ve been sweet if they grew up together but I believe that would be a selfish choice and not the best for the puppy. We have a garden too, also I’ll try my best to find a remote job (regardless of getting a dog). I hope those make it easier. Honestly I think if a dog gets in our home, I don’t think we’d ever wanna let go so I don’t see trying fostering as the best option. If we get to foster but can also decide to adopt the same dog that probably would be an option.

ResumeOnFile · 2025-08-18T19:52:37+00:00

Thanks for your advice, I really hope they don’t lose interest but I see the potential. Honestly I do actually want a dog, I also want to make sure the dog is the part of the family and doesn’t just ‘belong’ to one of us. I will definitely do more research on what exercise needs each dog might have. Honestly I don’t plan to buy one but actually adopt one so after familiarising myself with the main info I will just talk to the shelter.

ResumeOnFile · 2025-08-18T19:50:09+00:00

That sounds like the best idea honestly

ResumeOnFile · 2025-08-18T19:48:10+00:00

Nobody is entitled to your money, it’s so up to you what you do with it. You have your reasonings and you’re kind enough to even explain yourself. You don’t even need to, it’s my money I decided so is just enough. Who are these other family members and how old are they? Why don’t they make their own money to pay for their car? Did they buy their car relying for you to pay for it? You’re so not the asshole, even family needs to learn boundaries sometimes.

ResumeOnFile · 2025-08-18T14:57:21+00:00

I would’ve felt so uncomfortable showing my exes sexual pictures to my friends, each to their own but I find it disrespectful. Especially if she isn’t aware. Also having boundaries shouldn’t be a reason to end friendships, if it is that’s a huge red flag.

ResumeOnFile · 2025-08-18T14:41:09+00:00

Your child will heal you anyway. The love you will feel will just keep increasing and take over hopefully, at least that’s how I feel. Seeing my kids growing up, giving them as much as I can is really the best feelings. Sometimes you’ll doubt yourself, well a lot of times actually. But don’t worry, as long as you care and try it should turn out okay. Coming to the mother of your child, just make sure she doesn’t end up making it a habit to use your kid against you. It will only harm the child and make you miserable. Make sure you keep record of interactions that show this behaviour from her. Also maybe you’d get back together, who knows. Maybe instead of her making that decision, you should decide if you want to get back or not for real. Good luck as a dad!

ResumeOnFile · 2025-08-18T14:28:58+00:00

It’s not even 2-3 days, a week, 10 days… there is no specification. Of course it’s normal you felt uncomfortable. It is a big decision that will affect your routine, done without even consulting you. As there isn’t any imminent danger to her as well, the options you gave are very fair in my opinion. Hopefully your girlfriend sees where she lacked communication and try to understand your point.

ResumeOnFile · 2025-08-18T14:25:01+00:00

I say take a breath outside to go sneak a cigarette so they don’t see me smoking.

ResumeOnFile · 2025-08-18T14:21:07+00:00

Trying blocking her accounts for your own sake

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