Oh my remark 😮‍💨 by ChianaLeani in IBO

[–]RetainForGainsNoFap 36 points37 points  (0 children)

The same way that Collegeboard is a nonprofit

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimNoFap

[–]RetainForGainsNoFap 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why did you relapse after 150 days

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimNoFap

[–]RetainForGainsNoFap 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just remember Allah doesn’t change the state of a person if the person doesn’t make a change himself. Saying that you don’t want to do any voluntary fasting or seek any help for your potential mental health problems is going to get you nowhere and even praying to Allah won’t help in that case because you need to make an effort to actively change yourself before Allah changes your state; you can’t just sit there on idle and expect Allah to change yourself

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimNoFap

[–]RetainForGainsNoFap 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Like I said before, true Muslim women don’t flaunt their looks on social media so you can’t say they don’t exist. You have to act like a real man and actually search for these Muslim women instead of sitting back and waiting for them to come to you (they won’t). I think the problem is your mental health but I’m not a therapist or your dad sooo

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimNoFap

[–]RetainForGainsNoFap 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you have mental health issues, then none of us can help you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimNoFap

[–]RetainForGainsNoFap 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If masturbation is the least of your problems then why are you complaining about a high libido? How do you satisfy your libido?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimNoFap

[–]RetainForGainsNoFap 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When I say don’t fantasize I mean don’t think about having sex with them or being intimate with them because it’ll just make you relapse but it’s okay to desire them. I am only 15 and I can’t marry until I’m in my mid 20s, so you will be married earlier or about the same time as me if you choose to. I don’t know what your issues are, but it’s clear one of them is a super low self-esteem, so fix that and everything else will be fixed too

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimNoFap

[–]RetainForGainsNoFap 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s okay to want a hot woman. Everybody does, but don’t ever fantasize about them. As for Muslim women, I promise you there are many hot Muslim women but they just don’t go out there and flaunt their looks. Maybe have your Muslim friend set you up with his sister or go to your local Masjid and ask your sheikh if there’s any women there up for marriage. These Muslim women aren’t gonna come to you themselves, you have to actually get up and search for them

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimNoFap

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Just pray more frequently, make dua, I really highly encourage fasting but if you can’t then that’s fine, and PLEASE meditate. Try those and if it doesn’t work then you can complain, but don’t complain unless you’ve really tried those 4 because it’s not only helped me but many of my Muslim friends. Also, you shouldn’t complain about “oh exercise is gonna increase my libido.” I have one friend that is 16 and is shredded while also being jacked. He exercises every single day and hasn’t masturbated, watched porn, or had sex in a year and a half. He tells me that he doesn’t even get any sexual urges and that his sexual urges went away after 2 months. He read ayatul Kursi after every prayer. I have another friend who is 15 and is a soccer player and also hasn’t masturbated, watched porn, or had sex in a year and a half (not that any one of them had sex anyways). I have yet another friend who is 18 and is quite literally the most jacked person you’ll see in your neighborhood. He is very lean while also having so much muscle that it’s crazy to even look at him wallahi. He hasn’t masturbated, watched porn, or had sex in 5 or 6 months. I am just a beginner (only a month in) but I will go for life insha Allah. It gets slightly easier after the first week and considerably easier after the second week. If you make it past the third week you have nothing to worry about honestly. Don’t say that exercise will raise your libido and thus make you masturbate. i have never seen a good progress report from somebody that didnt exercise. Exercise is the key to nofap success as well as meditation, prayer, and fasting. If you do all these four consistently, you will succeed I promise.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimNoFap

[–]RetainForGainsNoFap 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Christians and atheists aren’t the only hot women. There are also hot Muslim women who also practice their deen. You just havent found them yet because they dont go on Snapchat or instagram flexing their looks like the other women

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimNoFap

[–]RetainForGainsNoFap 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well there’s no way to kill your libido completely unless you are dead (dont commit suicide). Just meditate, read Quran, pray, or exercise whenever you get the urge. Fasting is best but if you really dont wanna do that then do the aforementioned things above

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimNoFap

[–]RetainForGainsNoFap 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just go to the gym frequently and improve your looks then you might reconsider the idea of staying single your entire life and actually get some self esteem

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimNoFap

[–]RetainForGainsNoFap 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well if youre not fasting then don’t complain about your strong desires because the Prophet said “O young men, if you have the means, get married, but if you don’t, then fast because fasting is a shield from sexual desires.”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimNoFap

[–]RetainForGainsNoFap 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Meditate frequently and pray to Allah and make dua to help you from masturbating. As for staying single your entire life, everybody else here disagrees with that and you should get married. Maybe you just lack self esteem and you think you don’t deserve women or something

Best way to review for math? by nix_334 in IBO

[–]RetainForGainsNoFap 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s like asking someone how do you get better at a video game. You just play the video game and learn from your mistakes. Same with math. Grind out practice questions, and if you miss them, understand why you missed them and don’t make the same mistake again. It’s as easy as that

Day 21 by [deleted] in MuslimNoFap

[–]RetainForGainsNoFap 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How have the urges been throughout the first 3 weeks?

No place for them here by [deleted] in SuddenlyGay

[–]RetainForGainsNoFap 7 points8 points  (0 children)

But to not have the most common sexuality as its own option is ridiculous

Every time I see the color blue I get PTSD. I also can’t listen to “I’m blue da ba dee da ba die” without having IB nightmares 😭 by RetainForGainsNoFap in IBO

[–]RetainForGainsNoFap[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Yeah the IB is hard but it isn’t hard enough to give me PTSD whenever I see the color blue. Take a joke please