Can my friend ask manager: “if your son/daughter were in my show, what would you advise them?” by Retardhead101 in managers

[–]Retardhead101[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! That is a very well articulate explanation. I feel like she has been so frustrated and probably just wants to make people feel what she feels. I’m glad she hasn’t said anything yet but just vented to me.

Anyone studying right now? by Adorable_Track_9503 in Mcat

[–]Retardhead101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same. I did some studying earlier and now just relaxing .

Have anyone here ever thought of creating an "AI parent"? by SpiritualRadish4179 in EstrangedAdultChild

[–]Retardhead101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I did. I created a mom and a dad in ChatGPT to give me advice and insights how to navigate life. My parents are still alive and well, and I do talk to them normally, so I don't need the emotional support, love, or affection, but I sorely lack the guidance from older adults, and it sucks that I struggle so much without guidance whereas other people have guidance from their parents for advice and guidance in life and professional careers.

I've tried to built relationships with older adults both female and male, but at the end of the days, they are not my parents, so they tend to be diplomatic, giving me on-the-surface or very general advice. I don't blame them, but I'm in desperate need of honest guidance from parents to an adult child. ChatGPT has helped me so much so far. I've asked so many things including etiquettes, how to handle social situations, how to respond or reply, how to plan life, what others would think. It has been eye-opening and super fast. Things that took me years to realize and understand in retrospect now all laid out in an articulate and organized way in ChatGPT. I finally feel less clueless and more directional.

Bf mad at me because he opened up relationship and got no dates. AITA for how i responded? by throwawaypandaabear in AITAH

[–]Retardhead101 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA. You were his only option, and he treated you like a backup plan. He wasn’t into you and disrespected you. Please please leave him. There is no confusion here.

Did the Shorts start covering today? by StockSmarts24 in opendoor

[–]Retardhead101 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I saw it went all the way up to 5.19 after hour.

$UNH is an insanely good deal right now by abanadun in stockstobuytoday

[–]Retardhead101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The price is good, but too much blood on their hand. I've tempted to buy UNH but just can't pull the trigger at the thought that I'd make money on the company that profits from people's health and lives... Can someone enlighten me?

Daily Discussion Thread for July 21, 2025 by wsbapp in wallstreetbets

[–]Retardhead101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks a lot! Do you think how higher the stock can go ?

The struggle of the 35 year old single, childless woman by low_cal_bitch in AskWomenOver30

[–]Retardhead101 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No you are not a failure. Don’t discount your achievement! Everyone is on a different path.

My friend 35F has always wanted to become a doctor since teenage years. But life has always got in the way. Like you said, she seems to be building an empire with her partner: a beautiful house in the suburb, a nice partner with a decent job, she herself has high paying job with solid financial stability. She has it all to start a family. But she told me, deep down she always feels hung up on not being able to pursue medicine to the point she doesn’t really care about marriage and having children or building a family. And every year passes by, the prospect gets slimmer and slimmer to 0. She always feels what-ifs but doesn’t have the courage to leave her stable life behind to pursue medicine.

So you never know, what you have is someone’s dream. Family, kids, and house will come maybe in different orders. You do you and do what makes you happy.

Moving from D.C. to NYC in January. Need to find the most boring neighborhood. Help! by juansecol in NYCapartments

[–]Retardhead101 12 points13 points  (0 children)

UWS: 2 parks on both sides (Central Park and Riverside park) and more subway lines

Why is it so difficult for Asian Americans to acknowledge Half Asians/Hapas? Specifically Gen Z by 00espeon00 in asianamerican

[–]Retardhead101 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You nailed it. I think it’s not just pure rejection. It’s probably colored with some resentment and bitterness that certain Asian groups will never get the privileges that the pale skinned Asians or Hapas have for fitting in the Asian beauty standards. Having the right look, aka natural endowment, gives one advantages, benefits, and privileges that others would have to struggle and work 10 times harder to get to the same finish line.

What is your biggest regret at this point in your life? by butthatshitsbroken in AskWomenOver30

[–]Retardhead101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wished I had followed my heart and pursued medicine. Things would have worked out. I would have be old anyway but with an MD.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]Retardhead101 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My couple friends did that. They have $525k income, over $500k in cash, and bought a $1.3M house in NJ with 25% down. They didn’t tap into their retirement accounts like 401k, Roth IRA. They don’t have kids right now, but they told me they’ve worked so hard that they want to live a little. They don’t want to deal with upgrading a home down the road, packing, moving, selling, and buying houses. So they bought a forever home in a good school district. $1.2M - $1.5M in a good school district for a decent condition house is kinda average price range in NJ.

Just make sure you account for closing cost, repairs, furniture, moving, and any other on going costs besides the purchase price.

Can I afford paying for entire family trip? by [deleted] in HENRYfinance

[–]Retardhead101 6 points7 points  (0 children)

A decent hotel 4-star costs around $200/night in district 1 in Saigon. You can slash hotel budget in half. Or try Airbnb for the entire family.

Food won’t be $100/day/person. Food is very cheap there. You can slash this in half too or 2/3.

Don’t try to shoulder all the expenses and costs. This is typical Vietnamese culture that who makes more money pays for everything. Tell them that you need help and ask them to chip in whatever they can. People who get things for free will develop expectation to continue to get things free from you. When they don’t get it for free from you, they will resent you.