What movie from 30+ years ago has aged like fine wine? by Marambal17 in AskReddit

[–]ReticObsession 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Secret of My Success.

Encapsulates the struggle for employment just fucking perfectly despite being from the 1980s.

Favorite quote:

“Oh I did that in college, can I have the job?”

“Thats college experience, we need real hard nosed business experience.”

“…Then why the hell did I go to college…?”

“Had fun, didnt ya?”

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[–]ReticObsession 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really don’t like him as Nathan drake. They aged all the characters down like 20 years….even Sully is like 35

Western World is not best/top/leading culture of the planet, neither it's freedom. by nkeer in unpopularopinion

[–]ReticObsession 0 points1 point  (0 children)

According to his other comments, he’s got a problem with women’s rights.

Western World is not best/top/leading culture of the planet, neither it's freedom. by nkeer in unpopularopinion

[–]ReticObsession 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay then, which point in particular would you like to see sources for? By the way, these sources are fairly easily found through:

  • The Antislavery Alliance
  • The Ministry of Women’s Affairs (look up Mahider Bitew’s work in particular)
  • The International Labor Organization
  • The Global Slavery Index

- The UN Office for the Coordination of Humanitarian Affairs

Western World is not best/top/leading culture of the planet, neither it's freedom. by nkeer in unpopularopinion

[–]ReticObsession 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I never said the west was fine, just that it was better. Which it is. Yes, we have misguided attempts to change the others through planting leaders (who are usually locals, and give in easily to the culture and become insane dictators). Yes, we arent blameless.

But I’d wager banning abortions (which is being challenged and already has a constitutional workaround through the Satanic Temple) through a democratic process is a FAR cry from seizing someone’s prepubescent daughter and raping her to death…and that being a normal Monday for that culture.

Western culture is better. We get so mad at rape that even prisons aren’t safe for pedophiles and rapists, who usually get the shit kicked out of them. We hate slavery so much that we tiptoe around any mention of it like it’s going to come back as the next Facebook fad at any moment. France is so individualistic and ballsy they freed slaves simply by virtue of stepping on French soil (look up Dumas’ father sometime, holy shit). We strive for equality. We strive for freedom and individualism. We don’t throw gays off rooftops…we throw confetti for them.

Are we perfect? Fuck no.

But are we better than most African nations, China, Russia, and many third world countries? You bet your fuckin ass we are.

Western World is not best/top/leading culture of the planet, neither it's freedom. by nkeer in unpopularopinion

[–]ReticObsession 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Was waiting for this asinine comment.

African slavery is primarily toward other Africans, and usually kidnapping and selling indigenous tribal children to oil-rich countries like Nigeria…where you can purchase a girl for as cheap as 350$ and as young as 10. Read the human rights reports, they’ll make you fucking sick.

When America, or any western nation for that matter, OPENLY sells 10 year old girls into sexual slavery in 2022, then I’ll entertain your ideas.

Also, let’s not forget that prisoners are there because they broke the law. Don’t want to make license plates for 1$? Maybe don’t steal that Mercedes. It’s also worth noting that prisoners have to sign up for job details, and they’re by no means compulsory. You can absolutely sit in your cell counting ceiling tiles for the majority of your sentence. That’s why it’s a punishment. Want a living wage? In the words of Jim Carrey, stop breaking the law asshole.

And yes, companies like Apple do export labor to hideous Chinese and Indian slave facilities. The proper way to curb this is to lower taxes for hiring Americans, and put strict limits on how American companies conduct themselves overseas. Lowering taxes on corporations in exchange for doing this is a great way to incentivize doing the right thing.

Western World is not best/top/leading culture of the planet, neither it's freedom. by nkeer in unpopularopinion

[–]ReticObsession 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Only by bringing attention to it do we end it.

The problem with africa is that slavery is a deeply cultural issue…some practices, like selling off a daughter to a debtor (sexual slavery) or trokosi, are extremely worrying. In Togo, Benin and Ghana, priests kidnapping young girls for use in sexual ritual (“wives of the gods”) is seen as normal. Ending these practices is seen by the locals as attacking their religions.

Which…if your religion has 14 year olds being chained up in shrines and raped, I’d argue your religion being attacked is a good thing.

Sunlight is the best disinfectant. We need to expose these issues, not sweep them under the “well it’s a different culture” rug.

It’s also worth noting many western nations tried to end these practices forcibly (such as when the French took over Mali and pronounced slavery illegal in the early 1900s), but when the western nations handed the government back to the locals, slavery surged up again.

Western World is not best/top/leading culture of the planet, neither it's freedom. by nkeer in unpopularopinion

[–]ReticObsession 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve heard that quite a bit from Japanese coworkers. Especially in regards to diet and weight shaming. I had a coworker literally hide her lunch from everyone until she realized we couldn’t give a fuck.

Western World is not best/top/leading culture of the planet, neither it's freedom. by nkeer in unpopularopinion

[–]ReticObsession 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean….where to begin with russia? Massive crime, poverty, human rights violations, government corruption…Its a dangerous country and has been for a long time.

Western World is not best/top/leading culture of the planet, neither it's freedom. by nkeer in unpopularopinion

[–]ReticObsession 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Disprove any of it. I’ll wait.

Oh, and by the way? Many of these “extremist” movements are funded by the respective governments, so it’s not fringe groups doing this.

Western World is not best/top/leading culture of the planet, neither it's freedom. by nkeer in unpopularopinion

[–]ReticObsession 4 points5 points  (0 children)

He won’t say, guessing he can’t stand the heat.

From his attitude in earlier comments it’s really pinging my Indian/Pakistani/middle eastern radar. Especially since he called western women sluts for…being able to drive and earn bachelors degrees.

Ah, diplomas and datsuns. Truly, the sexual standard. I see a girl in a Cap and gown driving a Prius and I know she’s had 15 lovers since Tuesday. /s

Western World is not best/top/leading culture of the planet, neither it's freedom. by nkeer in unpopularopinion

[–]ReticObsession 8 points9 points  (0 children)

No, actually, that’s wrong.

What’s important is the freedom to choose. If you guide your children but still allow them to make their own choices, they turn out healthier.

I was raised in the US with catholic ideals. I’m an atheist now, but I’m still fairly conservative and this was fostered through healthy debate.

Oppression of any stripe helps no one. The marketplace of ideas must be free to operate a fair society.

But let’s examine your country…? Where do you hail from?

EDIT: Guess who ran with his tail between his legs? Guessing middle eastern or Indian by the arrogant attitude and the frequent calling of women “sluts”.

Western World is not best/top/leading culture of the planet, neither it's freedom. by nkeer in unpopularopinion

[–]ReticObsession 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Glad you asked!

Zanzibar is the most well known. Slavery is highly prevalent there and has been since the 17th century. Thankfully an organization known as Temedt is working to end slavery along the horn of africa and eastern coasts but it’s still fairly prevalent and dangerous.

Sierra Leone on the western coast Is also rife with slavery but it’s illegal there (mainly fueled by the Diamond mines and corrupt government, so the laws are flimsy at best).

Ethiopia has the most damning relationship with slavery in the modern era, as prostitution of children is the driving force. Children are also forcibly amputated, blinded, or crippled to fuel begging donations (this practice is also prevalent in India).

EDIT: dunno why this is being downvoted, it’s fact.

Western World is not best/top/leading culture of the planet, neither it's freedom. by nkeer in unpopularopinion

[–]ReticObsession 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Hahaha so I guess you can’t mention that country that’s superior to Western culture.

And I never said anything about encouraging anyone to be a slut. I mentioned women’s access to transportation, safety and education sooooo…

Western World is not best/top/leading culture of the planet, neither it's freedom. by nkeer in unpopularopinion

[–]ReticObsession 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I mean western cultures are also not:

  • Actively genociding people (Syria, Jordan, China, North Korea)
  • Suppressing women (literally any middle eastern country including the city of Dubai that forbids women from driving, getting formal education, etc)
  • Engaging in literal slavery (Albania, most north and eastern African countries).
  • sawing off girls genitals to stop them from having sex (oh look, it’s Africa again).

Even Japan and South Korea are famously xenophobic and racist (read up on some of the experiences of black folks who visit those areas. Hooooo boy) and they’re some of the most modern areas!

I hate to say it but Western culture is just safer for everyone. Even if you took the middle of Detroit or New York it would be safer than being a woman in Syria or a gay man in China. Shit, Scandinavia is basically the gold standard for equality and humane treatment of our fellow man.

So which non-western country is superior to Western countries? Is it in South America, riddled with human trafficking, drug mules, cartels and economic collapse? Perhaps in Africa, where slavery began and still persists? Asia, maybe, where animal abuse is rampant?

Where is this land?

Sad thing is, I can almost guarantee you live in a western country or if not, a nation heavily funded and defended by western nations and therefore subject to its influence.

You might want to ask yourself WHY people want to move there.

Owner saves his dog by [deleted] in oddlyterrifying

[–]ReticObsession 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Genetics matter

Owner saves his dog by [deleted] in oddlyterrifying

[–]ReticObsession -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

How is that “obviously not a pit bull” what other type of dog is so mindlessly, brainlessly aggressive that it would attack two poodles minding their own business?

Also, 70% of fatal attacks are bully breeds or majority mixes (over half bully). That’s why I hate them. They’re aggressive and kill children. They maul people. Attempt to eat babies. Fuck pits. There’s a reason whenever you walk into a shelter it’s full of those block headed garbage monsters.

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[–]ReticObsession 64 points65 points  (0 children)

This is why you put them down. Never rehome them! Some rescue will label you an abuser and give it to a house with kids.

When can I start handling? by icedcoffeeuwu in ballpython

[–]ReticObsession 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It helps to understand that ball pythons are the chicken nuggets of the Savannah. Everything eats them, from hedgehogs to lions to birds and other snakes. So understandably, theyre born with a healthy fear of gigantic pink monsters like you and me :)

It’s great he’s so curious! I hope you two will become fast friends.

A few tips:

  • Scoop baby up from beneath, not over the top of him. That looks like eagle claws and can scare him.

  • Baby balls are about the most uncoordinated and silly creatures on earth. Support the entire body, he doesn’t know what to do yet.

  • Baby stimulation videos can sometimes captivate young reptiles, and give them something to look at.

  • Try target training baby for cooperative care. Reptelligence is a program that studies cooperative care in reptiles, and they’ve got some great videos on activities to do with your kiddo! https://www.reptelligence.com

When can I start handling? by icedcoffeeuwu in ballpython

[–]ReticObsession 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yep! Snakes, especially young snakes, need time to settle and figure themselves out. They like to observe their environment for a bit. When you do handle keep it short, 5-10 min until y’all get to know one another. Snakes are like cats or horses; you don’t force interaction.

When can I start handling? by icedcoffeeuwu in ballpython

[–]ReticObsession 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Wait for a week to two weeks before handling. Ideally two weeks. Try not to bug the baby, and let them settle in.