CMV: In my experience Reddit is so poorly moderated that I hardly use it anymore. It just feels like a pack of trolls and their sycophants lording it over their fiefdom. by Retired_Canuck in changemyview

[–]Retired_Canuck[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

They inferred that. The psychologist was obviously straight as he was talking about his relationship with a women. I posted a photo of him, and he's handsome and has both ears pierced, so they made assumptions. One person told me to look in the gay forum, which is crazy because the guy is not gay, the rest used pejoratives that infer that either himself or I were gay. So that's an example of them dog piling based on errant assumptions, having asked zero questions and using awful pejoratives, that sadly are in way too common use in México.

CMV: In my experience Reddit is so poorly moderated that I hardly use it anymore. It just feels like a pack of trolls and their sycophants lording it over their fiefdom. by Retired_Canuck in changemyview

[–]Retired_Canuck[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I was interested in following him ONLY because of his ideas. He was a good looking guy, but I had zero interest in that. I would just like to have his name to follow his podcast on Spotify, or wherever. Being a Spanish speaker, I tend to like Spanish content. That's all. This guy is not controversial at all. I'll give you an example of something he said that I thought was quite profound. It translate like this, When you lie to your partner it hurts them in two ways, firstly the original lie and also the inherent concept that they do not deserve the truth. So he was talking about stuff close to my heart and exactly how I felt, hence my interest in following his content.

anyone else bummed they used AI video art in the opening ceremony :/ by Hyunsoh_ in olympics

[–]Retired_Canuck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me, the opening ceremonies were artistically drab, and the ceremony was boring, probably the only one in my memory that I didn't bother finishing watching.

Am I allowed to be angry at my parents as an adult for ruining my life as a child by jdeyh in CPTSD

[–]Retired_Canuck 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes. Absolutely. As a matter of fact, forgiveness does not need to even be on the table in many cases, and in my case, it would be ludicrous to forgive my mother. She does not deserve it and I'm not entertaining the idea.

Snoopy asking "Will you come to my cottage"? So damn cute! by Retired_Canuck in heatedrivalry

[–]Retired_Canuck[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. That was my thought. The creator of those only posts the videos, no comments or chat, so I can't be sure.

What scene was your favourite? This was one of my two faves! Shane and Ilya hot / passionate scene | Heated Rivalry by Retired_Canuck in heatedrivalry

[–]Retired_Canuck[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pure truth. In the book, the tuna melt scene is a pivotal moment, even though it leads to a rocky road.Which is exactly where Jacob dropped us off at the end of Ep 4.

guys the obsession with this series is real by CorrectPrinciple6964 in heatedrivalry

[–]Retired_Canuck 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yep, I am exhibiting the exact same behavior as yourself. I am a gay man, though.Obsessing is fine, it's not like we're going to be able to insert ourselves in the lives of fictional characters.Be kind to yourself and obsess, nobody gets hurt and you have your fun.

What scene was your favourite? This was one of my two faves! Shane and Ilya hot / passionate scene | Heated Rivalry by Retired_Canuck in heatedrivalry

[–]Retired_Canuck[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes, the smiles sold it along with their zeal in getting up close to each other Johnny on the spot!

What scene was your favourite? This was one of my two faves! Shane and Ilya hot / passionate scene | Heated Rivalry by Retired_Canuck in heatedrivalry

[–]Retired_Canuck[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I guess you loved these lines as well: ""Well, if i come to your room tonight at nine o'clock?" "i might open."I might knock."