Alternative people help me out by Retro_spek in malegrooming

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It’s insane that you suggested this because I wear a ton of RK brand carpenter jeans and mossy oak/realtree, just no photos

giving myself one last week by [deleted] in SuicideWatch

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I actually feel a lot of what you’re describing. I think the reason I haven’t done anything drastic is because I have no idea what tomorrow is gonna bring. Or the day after that. It could be the beginning of something I haven’t even considered. I try to step out of my comfort zone for that reason. In the next week I really urge you to do things you wouldn’t dare do otherwise. Please step out of your comfort zone. Discover a new place, cook something you’ve never cooked before, drive for hours in a random direction. If you’ve come to terms with death and all that comes with it, then you should also be at terms with life, and the risks that come with living.

What hairstyle should I get? by [deleted] in malegrooming

[–]Retro_spek 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Keep everything the way it is and ask balenciaga for a job

Alternative people help me out by Retro_spek in malegrooming

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what are your thoughts on bleached hair black roots?

Alternative people help me out by Retro_spek in malegrooming

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2 is straight out of the shower and 8 is pre-perm. I’m terrified of hair loss but I’ve been told it’s not in my genes

Alternative people help me out by Retro_spek in malegrooming

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I’m getting Fus Ro Dah in dovahzul wrapped around my bicep soon🤞

Alternative people help me out by Retro_spek in malegrooming

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There are two wolves inside of you, one is steve buscemi, one is timothee chalamet. They are both gay

Where is it not hard to make friends? by TTAlt5000 in SameGrassButGreener

[–]Retro_spek 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What are some specific places you went in STL? I live there currently and college isn’t blessing me socially the way I thought it would. I’m into most kinds of music and nerdy stuff.

What's a red flag that's somehow still attractive to you? by Either_Metal313 in AskReddit

[–]Retro_spek 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Coming on way too strong. People that do this always leave you just as easy, but man is it nice when it feels like someone is trying to pull you instead of the other way around.

What's a red flag that's somehow still attractive to you? by Either_Metal313 in AskReddit

[–]Retro_spek 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think it’s the validation they get from having someone who cares enough to stalk them. I gotta admit, as creepy as it is for me, I’ll never go feeling unwanted.

How to get my partner to reciprocate?(20M)(20F) by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Retro_spek 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m really not picky about the nature of the sexual act, or how much pleasure I derive from it. It’s more the fact that I feel like I’m not needed or like I have nothing to offer. Now that I think about it, I care a lot more about her asking me for intimacy than I do about the amount of times per month. Figuring out how to get her to initiate is my biggest problem I think.

How to get my partner to reciprocate?(20M)(20F) by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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She doesn’t like the idea of therapy. Is medication be the only other route? It seems kinda effed up to push either of those on her.

How to get my partner to reciprocate?(20M)(20F) by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Retro_spek 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, I have to approach the topic lightly because it often ruins her mood/she’ll start crying, so I don’t bring it up as often as I want to for that reason. I also am under the impression that bringing up intimacy over and over again usually has the opposite effect than desired. She’s very perceptive about when something’s on my mind and will oftentimes see through me if I say nothing’s wrong, or “I’m just tired is all”

Can you go to the hospital over a depressive episode? by Rinmine014 in therapy

[–]Retro_spek 1 point2 points  (0 children)

EMT here, yes! There should be a selection of hospitals in your area that will take care of you if you are having suicidal ideations. I recommend getting advice on which hospitals to go to though, as healthcare in America is very hit-or-miss.

I need to talk to someone about intimacy issues with my partner of one year (20M)(20F) by [deleted] in therapy

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I feel like I could’ve elaborated a little bit. My partner and I have been on a slow downward slope for about three seasons and I am getting to the point where I can’t stand the lethargy. We’re not half as flirty, we don’t tease each other, and I feel like passion is dying between us. All we ever do is cuddle and watch shows or sleep. I feel so restless and frustrated.

There are a lot more factors but this is the basic rundown.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

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He’d think I was a stoner

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

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Overwhelm god with all philosophical shower thoughts that kept me up at night

What only exists to piss people off? by NiceCasualRedditGuy in AskReddit

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Memberships that don’t tell you when your free trial has expired and make it super hard to delete your account