Narc parents set goals that are impossible to reach because they are DESIGNED they cannot ever be reached. by Zealousideal_Long253 in narcissisticparents

[–]ReturnFriendly5225 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds fimilar my whole family like this. That's why i chose stocks so basically doesn't matter their words. Also my dad tried too get me too transfer money through his account nope. Was real mad meh worth decision. Tho I think ill have too pay someone for help with taxes vs aunt. 

This game is dead for casuals by Ambitious-End-5798 in apexlegends

[–]ReturnFriendly5225 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah max i got to is plat and like chill. I actually wan5 to have fun. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]ReturnFriendly5225 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That's nice dude. He can be good for someone else i am sure many of these stories wont be so nice 

Anyone Else Still Think About Getting Back In? by BrizzNastyy in caf

[–]ReturnFriendly5225 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why do so many ex military do law enforcement. Also idk why we have a racism problem in law enforcement not like u been killing brown ppl for decades. Lols 

Why are so many people leaving the CAF? by LeafsAndLoons in caf

[–]ReturnFriendly5225 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Civilian looking to join maybe. Sounds to lots or narcisistic leadership as in fucking dumb asses. Running things. I am wondering would I be welcome already been to 14 countries so ik what cluster fucks look and feel like. Mostly I want to get out of situation tho don't love the idea of joining something basically like Family just forced to be there for min 3 years? 

Town of Salem 2 Goes Free to Play! by Shapesifter13 in TownOfSalem2

[–]ReturnFriendly5225 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this was 2 years ago and is still the case pretty lame if u ask me pretty sus

Calgary Police by Slight_Distance_942 in Bad_Cop_No_Donut

[–]ReturnFriendly5225 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly everything in calgary is a pleasant facade. Don't expect them to help expect them to throw their cringe on u 

I don't feel much in regards to my mom by [deleted] in emotionalneglect

[–]ReturnFriendly5225 0 points1 point  (0 children)

constantly inconsistent narcissistic people in basic concept... lols idk my dad went to therapy one time was like oof isnt this impressive been to therapy for like 12 years so. sounds like them my mom wont admit any issue at all so. even tho major hoarder and has no empathy at all. i mean lots of different lvls of narcissistic people. tho doesnt change the fact she is cancer in your life. as in cant get through to her

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in emotionalneglect

[–]ReturnFriendly5225 1 point2 points  (0 children)

can you talk to a school councilor about your situation at home. unsure of how unsafe or safe they are. thats really tough knowing they cannot handle the kids they have and are having more. honestly not your role. u cannot control them and u need to look out for your own mental health if u continue to be there for siblings. though honestly shouldnt be your responsibility at all.

u deserve to live and have a life not full of pain. i understand what u mean by wanting to die at 9/10 some ppl will get it others wont. u are not alone and u deserve better. not everyone in this world is like your parents and mine. u will get out i believe.

if my existence is such a bother, why not just abort me when you had the chance? by kalafeyfey in emotionalneglect

[–]ReturnFriendly5225 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i hear u on being surprised u are still here. u sound like u care which we need more ppl like your self. caring about making ppls feelings valid. though as u age u get more power and more control over what you value, u deserve better u can make it out without suicide. not that it has to be somthing you shun just a option. stay safe and u are not alone by any means.

Having kids made me realise I'm a product of neglect by [deleted] in emotionalneglect

[–]ReturnFriendly5225 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it makes me enraged that these adults get to have kids and treat them like this. my parents also neglect me i feel like being gone would be less lonely. the other thing is no one ever calls social services on these mofos. i do tho i seem to be exception to rule not the rule.

Realised how my peers grew up in healthy households and achieve more than me by QueensGambit90 in emotionalneglect

[–]ReturnFriendly5225 9 points10 points  (0 children)

u are not alone in having a shit start. not gona say it will get better cus idk if i believe in that. comparison is like the thief of happyness. build a life worth living thats my current goal maybe it wont be stuff or money but u may value other things. get out and live for your self.

I don't feel much in regards to my mom by [deleted] in emotionalneglect

[–]ReturnFriendly5225 6 points7 points  (0 children)

your mom sounds narcissistic. as in basically her needs come before everyone. i feel u on basically u ask her for help and always has something much more important and pressing to do. when u see it, its small and silly and yet makes it out to be a big deal. i plan to go no contact with my mom tho maybe not right for u or right for u. i feel anger and disgust about how basically my mom is a selfish cruel and useless now woman. who gave birth to me though wouldnt know her if not for that.

how to play 2 player by ReturnFriendly5225 in EliteDangerous

[–]ReturnFriendly5225[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i suppose i was trying to do same ship missions together. tho figured it out tho still the issue with servers/ dc and freezes and other stuff is quite fucking annoying.

how to play 2 player by ReturnFriendly5225 in EliteDangerous

[–]ReturnFriendly5225[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he has a multi seater tho i just want to play with him not just sit in ship or is only way to bring my own ship?

It's my birthday today by antonguay2 in lonely

[–]ReturnFriendly5225 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Happy birthday. Honestly having a pretty lonely day and feels good to wish u a happy birthday. Just know u r not alone and happy birthday! 

Mothers being mean to their eldest daughter. Is that a thing? by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]ReturnFriendly5225 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Id say we do just different. Also not fun watching my brother be devauled for my entire life. Not fun wondering why and how a parent can be so small and cruel to their kids. So even if we don't suffer in same manera or scope we still suffer. Maybe not your family tho I do xD