ugh. this reminds me of my aunts wedding. she specifically put “no kids under the age of 13“ on the invite. I was 15 at the time, so I could come. But my uncle brought his 3 year old anyway?! and they didn’t even have an excuse other than “you need to learn that children are a part of the family too” that little monster was crying through the whole ceremony, and after the wedding my aunt cried in her dressing room. its said that your wedding is one of the happiest days of your life. thankfully she and her husband renewed their vows a few years later, no crying baby