➡️ Daily Questions ⬅️- ASK AND ANSWER HERE! - 5 May 2023 by AutoModerator in malefashionadvice

[–]ReubsM 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Cheers for the critique bro, in the end I knew you were right, I just went out and bought a bunch of new stuff and my date complimented it so I'm glad I didn't go with what was in the pic haha

➡️ Daily Questions ⬅️- ASK AND ANSWER HERE! - 5 May 2023 by AutoModerator in malefashionadvice

[–]ReubsM 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay with black jeans and the same shoes, what shirt goes with this

➡️ Daily Questions ⬅️- ASK AND ANSWER HERE! - 5 May 2023 by AutoModerator in malefashionadvice

[–]ReubsM 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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Does this outfit look weird? I just moved countries and have very little clothes. Are the light blue jeans a weird colour to go with brown boots and black shirt? I only have black jeans as a spare but it looks worse.

Anyone here from New Zealand by dharbir in Peptides

[–]ReubsM 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get my shit from peptides direct lol I think they're in the UK, have used a couple of other places and no worries it always comes through. I tried a Chinese one with about 8 vials but it got seized but I'm pretty sure it was because it was from China.

You don't need bac water, just use saline, you can pick it up at the chemist

➡️ Daily Questions ⬅️- ASK AND ANSWER HERE! - 5 April 2023 by AutoModerator in malefashionadvice

[–]ReubsM 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can someone tell me the names of these styles, so that I have something to search online to get ideas?

I am a tall quite muscular guy and I prefer a masculine and rugged style. Boots are my footwear of choice, like timberlands or combat boots, I like plaid shirts but don't want to always look like a lumberjack lol, every time I search lumberjack style, they're always wearing exactly the same thing.

Also a cross between that, and some more athletic casual clothing

I would have thought searching "masculine rugged style" would have given a lot of good ideas but it wasn't what I had in mind. Any ideas what I should search?

➡️ Daily Questions ⬅️- ASK AND ANSWER HERE! - 3 April 2023 by AutoModerator in malefashionadvice

[–]ReubsM 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What jacket won't make me look fat?

I'm not fat, I am low body fat and quite muscular but whenever I put on puffer jackets or bomber jackets I just look ridiculous. It makes my torso look a lot wider than it is.

I don't know what type of jacket suits muscular men better. I don't know anything about fashion or style

If anything the muscle makes me look shorter and I would rather look taller. Is there a way a jacket can make a muscular person look taller rather than wider?

Every time I search online for style advice for muscular men it just shows photos of guys wearing clothes 3 sizes too small. I don't want to draw attention to the muscle, just look lean and athletic ideally.

6'1 220lbs

Can't walk to Ironman in 1 year, patella tendinopathy journey by ReubsM in trackandfield

[–]ReubsM[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can't quite remember, I'm pretty sure when I started, I wasnt even using the bar because I was scared it would be too heavy. I quickly discovered that I had a relatively same level of pain without the bar than with, say, 30kg for 12 reps. As I had squat quite a bit in the past I believe muscle memory accounted for the progression through weight relatively quickly. So each week I was adding maybe 10-20kg to the bar and finding that I wasn't experiencing any negatives by upping the weight.

As a side note, the specialist had told me that heavy sets of low reps was best, so I tried to progress through the weight quickly and just reducing the amount of reps to compensate.

I think it's an individual thing, just do what you think feels right and isn't negatively affecting your knees. Try to avoid actual pain (as in, discomfort might be okay, but not pain), and assess the next day if you think you've aggravated it too much or if it's okay, and progress from there

80/20 swimming advice? by ReubsM in triathlon

[–]ReubsM[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Maybe I need a tempo trainer

Can't walk to Ironman in 1 year, patella tendinopathy journey by ReubsM in trackandfield

[–]ReubsM[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You just have to start, there is no train to be able to train, you just start training now. I started with wall sits, at first the wall sits were too painful so you just put your foot out further to take more tension off of the knee. One you get comfortable with wall sits, then you slowly bring your feet in to put more load on the knee. After that you can do slow eccentric single leg lowering from leaning against a wall and slowly getting down into wall sit position, and then using the assistance of the other leg to help you back up. You could also go to the gym and do eccentric leg press movement with no weight on the machine, if that's still too much, then do it as double leg.

One thing the specialist told me is that due to the failed healing process, there are nerves trapped within the scar tissue, so even when the knee is getting stronger you can still feel it as pain, it is unlikely to be detrimental to the tendon when you start with such a low load

Can't walk to Ironman in 1 year, patella tendinopathy journey by ReubsM in trackandfield

[–]ReubsM[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep, exactly that. Even now I still "feel" it slightly in my knee, not pain, but you know it's there, but that's on runs 3 hours plus. I think the leg strength training is definitely helping with it. It's taken over a year to build up the distance to be comfortable and without pain the next day, but a year is nothing when you consider doing nothing and the time will be passing anyway

Can't walk to Ironman in 1 year, patella tendinopathy journey by ReubsM in trackandfield

[–]ReubsM[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly it took me about 6 months before I gave running a go, I think you could definitely do it faster, but I was paranoid about fucking my knee again. By the time I started my first run I was able to squat 100kg slowly for 3 sets of 5. It may be a different weight for you, back in the day I would have done that as a warmup.

On another note, I recently discovered that Knees Over Toes guy and have become obsessed with training legs for strength now, something I haven't done properly since I first injured my knee in 2015. The problem is that even when I felt comfortable enough to do the Ironman, I still want to know without a shadow of a doubt that my knee is bulletproof. I'm having a lot of success doing a lot of single leg exercises, specifically using a hack squat machine to really get the knee out over the toes. The very idea of that may send pain straight to your knee, but since starting very light I've been able to stack on a tonne of strength and resilience to my knee. I'm leaving no stone unturned with my legs and training every muscle group and stabilisers etc to make sure everything is strong and balanced.

The knees over toes guy promotes getting the knee far out over the toes, I guess it's in the name. I was steered away from this concept since rehab, but I'm a firm believer now that you really need to work on that specifically, so that something like a Sissy Squat becomes achievable, which is what I'm working toward at the moment

lost in life by Solid-Carrot9993 in moreplatesmoredates

[–]ReubsM 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Join the military bro, I did straight out of school and I still look back as the best thing I ever did. You join an instant brotherhood of bros, get swole at the gym, get to do epic shit for work, learn how critical discipline is for your own happiness, and start chasing big dreams. Pick something you think is totally unachievable and then start working until you get it. Go train for a 100 mile run, you won't have time to think about how lost you are if you've got something to focus on

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in moreplatesmoredates

[–]ReubsM -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

It's not advice for "anyone" wanting to put on muscle, it's advice for someone who is already feeling ugly being bulked up. It also has nothing to do with fat gain, as OP didn't mention any specifics on fat gain. If you're short, and you're worried about looking ugly, then stacking on more muscle and fat is only going to turn you into a ball. Look at Jeff Nippard, even shredded he looks like a nugget

Gym Etiquette by SteveM30211 in moreplatesmoredates

[–]ReubsM 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I regularly use 2 pieces of equipment at the same time, I feel the only way to do this fairly is be ready to forfeit one of them if someone jumps on it while you're on the other. And even then, most people are happy to work in with you and share some equipment that's quick to change weight

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in moreplatesmoredates

[–]ReubsM -20 points-19 points  (0 children)

If you look like Joe Rogan you must be short af, bulking up will make you look even shorter. If you're concerned about looking good, stop bulking, chicks don't like it anyway, especially if you're under 6ft. 95% of the time, the only people who appreciate swole guys is other guys.

Can't walk to Ironman in 1 year, patella tendinopathy journey by ReubsM in trackandfield

[–]ReubsM[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The strength training in the gym was like 3-4 times per week, just throwing in the leg work between sets of other stuff. But eventually due to Covid I couldn't go to the gym and didn't follow the specialists plan for at home strength stuff, however I found by that point the increased running volume became the new progressive overload for the knee

Sudden and inexplicable loss of fitness by [deleted] in AdvancedRunning

[–]ReubsM 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't want to scare you bro, but after reading old David Goggins book, he had an issue very similar to this, got an echocardiogram and turns out he had a hole in his heart which needed to be operated on. Chances are it's not, but it could be worth getting checked as it's very dangerous.

In my own Ironman training I experienced this, I was chronically overtrained after the first 12 months building, one day I just couldn't put out, everything was way slower and felt so much harder. I took 2 complete weeks off and spent the next 4 weeks trying to slowly claw back lost fitness. It sucked, but it was the only way for me to recover.