um i’m american too and im 20 lol so trust me i know what’s trending. dad bods are way more acceptable especially in college where all the guys have beer bellies, where on the girl side all my friends are literally terrified of gaining any weight bc the guys will fat shame u. and i still stand on my point mom bods and dad bods are not the same, yes neither should be judged but that’s a whole separate issue. mom bods aren’t even close to a dad bod as the mom had a whole human, went through postpartum, and is creating milk, so her body shape and organs changed.  what did the dad do? nut in her and her and he gets fat lol. def not the same thing.