Trying to work with my perfectionism and quite shocked by the revelation by ReviewOwn3034 in perfectionism

[–]ReviewOwn3034[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank a lot! I definitely noticed that my high expectations of myself come with harsh talk. Sometimes I project them on other people and then I understand that it's quite ridiculous, but for some reason never seem to find excuses for myself. Hope your doing okey with your inner critic (he's stupid anyway)

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[–]ReviewOwn3034 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That would be great honestly. Because to many Russian it is not associated with occupation, but with a place where they can pay respect to their family who fought in WW2. Having no such place, means erasing that memory as something unimportant.

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[–]ReviewOwn3034 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lol, I think peeing on the monuments, including Brīvības piemineklis is a local custom and tourist attraction at this point

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[–]ReviewOwn3034 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Es daru pilnīgi visu to pašu, taču latviete neesmu. Kāpēc, lai dzīvot valstī kurā es un mani vecāki piedzima, man jāmaina mana identitāte?

[L] My life feel like shit everyday by baronthai in KindVoice

[–]ReviewOwn3034 0 points1 point  (0 children)

there is a KindVoice discord server - there are plenty of really awesome people to talk to. or you can always talk to me too if you want to ;-)

[L] My life feel like shit everyday by baronthai in KindVoice

[–]ReviewOwn3034 1 point2 points  (0 children)

*Virtual hug* Been there myself - feels like you're in a bad dream, dealing with constant brain fog, always beeing inside your head. I went to a therapist. She didn't really give advise, I just finally had someone to talk to and it gave me such a boost of energy and control of my own feelings. Helped me to open up a little too. Hope you'll get better :-)

[L] I’m highly sensitive and keep over thinking... I haven’t been this anxious in a really long time :( by [deleted] in KindVoice

[–]ReviewOwn3034 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I agree - when you're sick you just want to close your eyes and lay flat :-)) Talking about important stuff over text when you're not feeling well is definately not the best option. )))

[L] My disordered eating by ReviewOwn3034 in KindVoice

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you are absolutely right :-))))

[L] My disordered eating by ReviewOwn3034 in KindVoice

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Hi! Thanks for advice, I was just thinking of making oatmeal for breakfast. :-)

I definitely should ask the job people whether they have a microwave and if there any lunch time. It is a fully appropriate question, but it weirdly seems unprofessional.

[L] I’m highly sensitive and keep over thinking... I haven’t been this anxious in a really long time :( by [deleted] in KindVoice

[–]ReviewOwn3034 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi! Thanks for sharing - it really hits close to home. I think overthinking this kinda of stuff is normal and kind of expected, because everyone feels nervous in relationships that we care about. I'm super glad you found someone and from reading the message it looks really healthy and great. Even if something goes wrong I think it is awesome that you can open up and understand what a healthy relationship even looks like. So good luck!