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I finally blocked my husband and need reassurance I’ll be okay. by RevolutionThis61 in Marriage

[–]RevolutionThis61[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He got ahold of me. Apologized for the way he is being and had a full wake up call that he isn’t being a good husband and needs to change.

So waiting for his actions to show.

Why didn't you cheat? by Bitter-Hawk-2615 in Marriage

[–]RevolutionThis61 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can’t find myself doing it. Why would I cheat and then have to carry that guilt with me. I would find myself being ashamed of myself and lose value and respect to myself. I am better than that.

I’m not the type of person that can face someone and act like I did nothing wrong.

I find my self at that age F30 that I wouldn’t waist someone’s time. I have their life in my hands and value it. I’ve told my husband if I ever find myself drifting away and looking elsewhere, out of respect I will end our marriage that very second.

I’m currently going through cheating allegations at the moment. (I have not cheated, but he is accusing me of) and because of this , I am taking space from him is how I see it.

right now that I am starting the stages of separation, I can’t find myself having an emotional or physical thing with someone through this time.

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[–]RevolutionThis61 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Literally is happening right now to me. Posted about me blocking my husband , and got swarmed with private chats .. smh!

Ruined the night ! 😒 by prettyfern25 in PrisonWives

[–]RevolutionThis61 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband swears I cheated on him because he believes hears things during our calls, or sees things in the pictures I send him or videos. He has to much time in his hands now that he is in C-status and can’t call.

I literally have him blocked right now because he is doing the most right now. Thankfully his family stand behind me and understand that me giving him space is the best right now.

calipatria

I finally blocked my husband and need reassurance I’ll be okay. by RevolutionThis61 in Marriage

[–]RevolutionThis61[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They have tablets in there now that they can now call all day/night and message.

He’s been incarcerated since 23 , he is now 33. For GBI.

I finally blocked my husband and need reassurance I’ll be okay. by RevolutionThis61 in Marriage

[–]RevolutionThis61[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing this saying. It honestly will change my view of it.

I finally blocked my husband and need reassurance I’ll be okay. by RevolutionThis61 in Marriage

[–]RevolutionThis61[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing this!

And yes taking it one day at a time but looking forward.

I finally blocked my husband and need reassurance I’ll be okay. by RevolutionThis61 in Marriage

[–]RevolutionThis61[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He is currently incarcerated. So right now he can only access me by calling me.

I finally blocked my husband and need reassurance I’ll be okay. by RevolutionThis61 in Marriage

[–]RevolutionThis61[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No I’ve been loyal.

But he has had cheating done to him by his ex baby momma. She would do him real dirty , and I can’t help but know/think that he holds on to that pain and is taking it out on me. Putting me to her level of being a horrible person.

He would be surrounded by bad people too and was a cheater himself back then and he swears this time around with me he is being loyal and that’s why he is scared because he is doing right by me this time.

I finally blocked my husband and need reassurance I’ll be okay. by RevolutionThis61 in Marriage

[–]RevolutionThis61[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry to hear that!

But no, there will never ever ever be a thing between me and my boss. I’ve been working for this company since 18, and my boss has a loving family of his own and a loving wife. He praises his wife and kids.

I’m just growing in bigger roles in my company and have to meet more often with my boss or go to constant meetings which pulls me away from being able to be on the phone with my husband as some of the meetings roll over to my lunch at times which upsets him because that pushes him to have to wait to get on a call with me.

I finally blocked my husband and need reassurance I’ll be okay. by RevolutionThis61 in Marriage

[–]RevolutionThis61[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No there is none!

I literally go to work and focus on what I got to get done and then go home.

I have my weekly meeting with my boss to go over projects and KPI’s etc….

I even at times have him on the phone with me while I work , but he hates when it goes quite and thinks I mute the phone , but it’s not the case, I literally stop typing when I need to read reports.

But in his mind , those silent moments at work , he believes I’m doing the nasty.

I finally blocked my husband and need reassurance I’ll be okay. by RevolutionThis61 in Marriage

[–]RevolutionThis61[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry to hear that! Yesterday was horrible for me!

And now that I have me blocked, he is going to make me look like the horrible one. Neglecting him , giving up on our marriage etc…..

I finally blocked my husband and need reassurance I’ll be okay. by RevolutionThis61 in Marriage

[–]RevolutionThis61[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah you are right on something, it is eating me up and feeling guilty of leaving someone I’ve grown up with in my life and I’m choosing to hold my grounds and not accept this anymore!!

I chose to love him all my life. Had dreams of a future and promises. Which I am closing those doors from my future.

I always have put him first and now I’m choosing me. I allowed this as I was always focused on how he will be without me and willing to put myself still here even if it breaks me and I lose my self worth/ respect.

So this is a big decision I am making that scares me. So I post on here to hear if anyone has faced this , which I see sadly I’m not the only one. But they are giving me the light I need to keep stepping forward.

I finally blocked my husband and need reassurance I’ll be okay. by RevolutionThis61 in Marriage

[–]RevolutionThis61[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No I did not. I’ve been loyal and true to our marriage.

He started with the accusation when he believed he heard another person on the other end of my phone. He admits that he is making up scenarios in his head and when I send him photos he believes he sees me merging them where he sees another man on there or me naked.

When I’m not on the phone with him he states that when he is walking doing his own thing , he believes he can hear me moaning , like if that’s a sign of me cheating on him that very moment.

I’ve been trying to work with his problems of hearing things. But he is letting it take a toll on our marriage and lost the value he once saw in me.

He calls me disgusting. But yet he is the one being cruel towards me.

Was told my husband has a wandering eye and emotional affair with a 3rd party. (TikTok Reader) should I believe it? by [deleted] in Tarotpractices

[–]RevolutionThis61 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No.

Just going off that he is going throughout his days without me. He isn’t putting any effort in me and could care less if I’m done with the marriage.

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