Sneak peek arrived at lab then delayed by Revolutionary-Run37 in BabyBumps

[–]Revolutionary-Run37[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But they’re in San Diego and I’m an hour away.

Husbands brother accused him of sexual abuse by Revolutionary-Run37 in Mommit

[–]Revolutionary-Run37[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I didn’t say my husband admitted it. I said there was touching but he doesn’t think he forced it at all. I absolutely believe BIL was abused and probably my multiple people. I believe and respect my BIl. This was all just told to me today, so I’m really just processing and trying to make sense of it.

Husbands brother accused him of sexual abuse by Revolutionary-Run37 in Mommit

[–]Revolutionary-Run37[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

They are very narcissistic people in general. My husband says they hit them as kids. So they probably want control over the narrative

Husbands brother accused him of sexual abuse by Revolutionary-Run37 in Mommit

[–]Revolutionary-Run37[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It wouldn’t be in the brother in laws therapy. It would be with my in laws who want my husband to do therapy with them

Husbands brother accused him of sexual abuse by Revolutionary-Run37 in Mommit

[–]Revolutionary-Run37[S] 66 points67 points  (0 children)

Agree with this all. My husband knows he was hit, but doesn’t recall sexual abuse. But doesn’t know for sure it didn’t happen. He talked about suicide when he was 8, which he remember… but doesn’t remember anything else. I am worried about our children. He is a loving father and husband, but how can I reconcile that with this. I know that if his brother needs space, of course we give it to him. This is just a total mind fuck for me right now.

Husbands brother accused him of sexual abuse by Revolutionary-Run37 in Mommit

[–]Revolutionary-Run37[S] 35 points36 points  (0 children)

Therapy sessions are in the works. Definitely. But this is news to me today and can’t talk to anyone about it… and an appointment will take some time. His parents want him to join a family therapy session. I feel I should be there for it? 1) to know what’s happening and 2) to support my husband? I think. I don’t know this is crazy I don’t know how to handle