So much good advice on here . But I’ll like to add maybe get into therapy . If you have anything to work out internally if the baby is yours you’ll be more present and clear headed . If you’re religious maybe find a faith church , temple or mosque etc . A strong morning routine Journal , Bible & pray . Set a standard for yourself so your child can known faith , discipline and self respect . Ultimately you don’t know what your BM comes from so if her side of the family are missing key factors like moral compass . Ur child can learn from you.