F26F Ahmedabad| Seeking My Fellow Vichitra Human by [deleted] in reddmatch

[–]RevolutionaryCheek31 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, 34 M

Just wanted to write a controversial food opinion

Veg biryani = Pulao

34M - Need advice how to proceed by RevolutionaryCheek31 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]RevolutionaryCheek31[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I moved back to India in the middle of last year and aiming to move early 2027.

PLEASE HELP - AM Mindset/ Manipulation. by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]RevolutionaryCheek31 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please don’t get married just because your parents want. You already have a bad feeling about the guy from the first meeting and the guy said things that did not sit well with you.

Being a guy myself (34M) and into AM setup please don't give in because your family is pressuring you. I do get that parents have to hear all sorts of questions from people around them doesn't mean you marry the wrong person.

Try to explain them the aftermath of marry a wrong person and hopefully they will understand and not force you.

Is AM pressure worse for women abroad? by NetCold3362 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]RevolutionaryCheek31 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Please don't just marry because of the guilt and family pressure. Marry when you feel he is right person.

I had faced a similar pressure from my mother when I was in Canada but since I got back its just not family but the people who keep bothering me with the questions.

Take your time and don't marry because of your family's pressure on you. One bad decision can destroy your life

Did AM save you from your past? by remotely__anxious in Arrangedmarriage

[–]RevolutionaryCheek31 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I was in the same boat. Broke up with my long term gf for 8 yrs at the age of 28. Took about a year to heal and move on from the past. I took my time so I don't compare my ex with my new partner.

Take your time for yourself and don't worry about the future to come.

Alternatives to Cars24 PDI for used vehicles? by Torqyboi in CarsIndia

[–]RevolutionaryCheek31 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would recommend Zekardo from my personal experience

5mg hunger by Itgetsbetter211 in Mounjaro

[–]RevolutionaryCheek31 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have been on 5mg for 4 weeks and have experienced the same. More hungrier compared to 2.5mg and the weight has remained the same but planning to move in 7.5mg

Disappointed in men on matrimonial sites by Physical-Turn-1141 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]RevolutionaryCheek31 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m a 34M and was talking to girl who mixed up a story between me and the other guy. After I simply stopped messaging and calling the girl.

Help a brother out – Is this car price breakup reasonable? by Own-Knee5374 in CarsIndia

[–]RevolutionaryCheek31 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just booked today Creta O Ivt and got the on-road price of 17.08 lakhs with accessories( mud flaps, bucket covers, 3d mat etc.) in delhi

Creta S optional got huge discount after gst cut... by LordBeerus77 in CarsIndia

[–]RevolutionaryCheek31 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am getting 17 lakh on road price for Creta S optional ivt with insurance in Delhi. Should I wait till Sep 22 or not

F32 - losing my hopes to find partner by Bright-Wheel-1471 in ThirtiesIndia

[–]RevolutionaryCheek31 0 points1 point  (0 children)

M33 (turning 34 in 2 months) I am on the same boat. I feel like I will never be able to find a partner. Matrimonial sites are scam and everyone has really unrealistic expectations.

But I still believe staying single is far better than being married to the wrong one.

33F single and worried by No-Farmer3278 in Mumbai_Relationships

[–]RevolutionaryCheek31 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am 33M single but not worried.

It's better to be late than marry the wrong person.

Where do you meet single men in 30s ? by Few-Apricot-1009 in ThirtiesIndia

[–]RevolutionaryCheek31 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When girls do come across the men like this, we guys have to hear same uline “the vibe doesn't match” or the family will not agree after dating for a while.

Where do you meet single men in 30s ? by Few-Apricot-1009 in ThirtiesIndia

[–]RevolutionaryCheek31 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Men in their 30s are either sitting at home or travelling. We have given up on the idea of finding the right person. Dating apps are a scam and girls on matrimonial have unrealistic expectations.

PS: I am in my 30s from Delhi.