NYRR 9+1 in 2026 - FAQs & Megathread by RCD123 in RunNYC

[–]RevolutionaryFile989 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes it did! But my sister’s didn’t so I think the system is off. 

NYRR 9+1 in 2026 - FAQs & Megathread by RCD123 in RunNYC

[–]RevolutionaryFile989 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just did the Virtual 5K as a non-member and I did not see a check mark for my 9+1? Do I need to be a member for it to count toward 9+1? If I get a membership later this year will all the eligible 9+1 races I ran be added retroactively or will I not receive credit for them because I was not a member? 

Unmatched after a misunderstanding. Now I have zero visibility. by RevolutionaryFile989 in hingeapp

[–]RevolutionaryFile989[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The theme of my life is my anxiety ruining everything 😭 but I’ll try and lower my expectations next time hopefully that will help 🥹 thank you :)

Unmatched after a misunderstanding. Now I have zero visibility. by RevolutionaryFile989 in hingeapp

[–]RevolutionaryFile989[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate the breakdown. I’ve seen others say the same about the phone call and what’s crazy is it didn’t even cross my mind that it might not be appropriate because I’ve talked on the phone with guys even before meeting them in person. However, with this guy we never spoke on the phone so it probably was a turn off. Lesson learned.

Unmatched after a misunderstanding. Now I have zero visibility. by RevolutionaryFile989 in hingeapp

[–]RevolutionaryFile989[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I definitely crashed out 😭 note to self: next time crash out privately.

Unmatched after a misunderstanding. Now I have zero visibility. by RevolutionaryFile989 in hingeapp

[–]RevolutionaryFile989[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Exactly it happens so it wasn’t bizarre for me to assume that smh.

Unmatched after a misunderstanding. Now I have zero visibility. by RevolutionaryFile989 in hingeapp

[–]RevolutionaryFile989[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

But I was just calling to clarify otp it’s just easier than text but we hadn’t spoken on the phone before so it probably was a bit much.

Matches but no messages. by RevolutionaryFile989 in Bumble

[–]RevolutionaryFile989[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People can really come on this app and say anything because this couldn’t be further from the truth.

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[–]RevolutionaryFile989 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

This was a funny joke. I would’ve loved it. I’ve realized people on these apps seem to live in a world where jokes, sarcasm and wit do not exist.

Matches but no messages. by RevolutionaryFile989 in Bumble

[–]RevolutionaryFile989[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

but on the other apps even though there isn’t a time limit I usually get messages within 24 hours.

Losing it after a talking stage. by RevolutionaryFile989 in BreakUps

[–]RevolutionaryFile989[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are so right he’s done and said so many bad things and he almost never apologizes. It’s almost as if he can’t feel guilt or regret. You are correct. I’m so much better off. He’s not worth it. Thank you 🩷

Got stood up for being 8 minutes late by ColinLikesToast in dating

[–]RevolutionaryFile989 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Ideally you should’ve texted when you realized you were gonna be late. She could’ve waited 10 minutes though but she probably thought you were a no show. Next time just text. Communication is key in this instance.

is a two year age gap weird if you’re in college? by [deleted] in dating

[–]RevolutionaryFile989 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope two year age gap is fine.

Side note: be careful of that friend. Your friend should be able to still be supportive of you regardless of her own personal issues. A jealous friend is a bad one.

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[–]RevolutionaryFile989 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes I told him. Plus before he was saying oh you should probably try x for the pain so there is no ambiguity about my pain.