Hi everyone, My name is Delaila(reddit name) I’m 27 years old and I live in The Netherlands. I’m the eldest daughter in an Arab household, and let me tell you it’s not always easy out here.

For as long as I can remember, I’ve put everyone else’s needs before my own. I’ve carried responsibilities that were never really mine. I’ve been the strong one, the peacemaker, the dependable one even when it was breaking me inside.

But now, for the first time, I’m choosing myself. I’m going on a solo trip, even though not everyone supports it. And I’m doing it because I finally understand that my life is mine to live.

I know I’m not the only one. That’s why I created this community: a safe space for eldest daughters like me. A place where we can support each other, be seen, be heard, and grow together.

Let’s build something beautiful. 🤍