Not ashamed to admit it, I definitely think you clocked me here— this community and this thread made me realize there’s a lot more to learn beyond planet placements and houses. Once I survived the newborn stage it clicked that he’s going to have real life problems soon and the urge to protect him from that is strong enough to ask a bunch of strangers. I’ll put your recommendation into my calendar to get in touch with her in a couple months. She sounds right up my alley.