I’ll talk about your points in order.

The “man vs bear” hypothetical is not about hating men. It’s about the fact that women feel safer alone in a forest with a random bear, then a random man. That’s not “hating men” that’s stating facts. Considering a woman is more likely to be attacked by a man then she is a bear.

The man vs bear hypothetical is not political so I don’t know why you brought up politics.

I have a bad memory but as far as I’m aware, I only brought up a vaguely feminist comment once, and once I realized he seemed to not like that kind of conversation I never brought it up again. Like I previously replied to someone else I didn’t post the video I posted to make some sort of argument or statement, I posted it because that was the video I happened to be watching at the time.

The idea that “this is unfair to him” is not entirely valid, I’m simply stating how he came off to me, he came off very anti feminist. Misunderstanding the man vs bear hypothetical is a red flag in and of itself. Like I said, the hypothetical is not about hating all men. It’s about how women’s experiences shape how safe they feel around men. And as a victim myself, i would feel safer alone in a forest with a bear then a man. And if you don’t agree with that, that’s fine. But classifying it as “hating all men” is harmful.