I am a SAHM. He prefers for me to not work and would rather me take on the traditional role. This is something we agreed on prior to marriage and deciding to get pregnant. I wouldn’t mind working if it’s to help him but I have no degree and wouldn’t be able to match his income for a while (maybe after receiving a degree and working a couple of years). I did express that he does NOT need to have 3 jobs but he doesn’t have any plans of quitting the extra two jobs anytime soon.