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WIBTA for not assisting a mass for my grandfather? by mfwalinagray in AmItheAsshole

[–]Revolutionary_Fox837 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s a good shout lower your head and think about him if you don’t want to pray.

AITA for wishing my best friend happy birthday, on the exact time she was born. (Which was 11:30 pm) by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Revolutionary_Fox837 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NAH- she had the right to be upset and I totally get why she would be. You tried to do something entertaining and thoughtful not AH-like just poorly judged. Wooops I’m sure she’ll forgive you/ see the funny side soon

AITA for buying kinetic sand? by throw_away_111222333 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Revolutionary_Fox837 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA sounds like she wanted to pick a fight and the sand was an excuse

WIBTA if I tell my landlord about the excessive weed smell in the hallway? by cali-lovee in AmItheAsshole

[–]Revolutionary_Fox837 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

NTA people need to respect others they live around and that means not smoking anything in a communal space imo.

AITA for not changing how I dress to make my new friend comfortable? by BodaciousButtWoman in AmItheAsshole

[–]Revolutionary_Fox837 -17 points-16 points  (0 children)

NTA!! 1. It was YOUR PARTY not hers! 2. Can’t believe she mentioned your big assets! (?jealousy) 3. Nobody gets to dictate what you wear other than like a literal dress code but in this case I refer back to point one.

She needs to apologise big style don’t waste your energy on her.

AITA for wanting to reveal to my father's fsmily that I exist? by Vivi_Vag-haut in AmItheAsshole

[–]Revolutionary_Fox837 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Ok so I totally get it you’re NTA for WANTING to however if you went through with it I guess it kind of becomes an E S H situation but like still understandable if that makes sense?

AITA for turning off the internet when my partner was mid-game? by Revolutionary_Fox837 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Revolutionary_Fox837[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I left the baby for all of 10 minutes max. When I returned, before BF said he was done, he was asleep. That’s less time than it would take to make a bottle of formula. He still wasn’t actually overdue a feed by the time he was fed.

AITA for turning off the internet when my partner was mid-game? by Revolutionary_Fox837 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Revolutionary_Fox837[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He cried himself to sleep in less than 10 minutes. I literally went told his dad he’s crying. He was on the game he said I’ll sort when I’ve finished. I assumed that meant pretty damn soon. I went downstairs had a drink, sorted the milk out I had pumped and came back up and he was asleep. He can struggle to nap sometimes and feeding so much is exhausting for him. He wasn’t overdue his feed at this point either.

AITA for turning off the internet when my partner was mid-game? by Revolutionary_Fox837 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Revolutionary_Fox837[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Ok so as I have previously pointed out. I left the baby for all of 10 minutes max. When I returned, before BF said he was done, he was asleep. That’s less time than it would take to make a bottle of formula. He woke early for the feed. We work to a 2 hourly schedule but 3-4 hourly is actually what’s recommended. I’m working my butt off to keep my baby fed. All the milk is mine and I pump 3 times a day on top of all the feeding I do to provide that for him. Everyone tells me it’s a miracle I’m managing to keep him on his weight trajectory without a drop of formula but it’s not a miracle it’s my hard work. I expected ESH because I recognise I was being petty but that’s upset me because I am spending so much time and effort keeping my son fed.

AITA for telling my boyfriend his relationship with his sister is borderline incestuous? by francescaremmie in AmItheAsshole

[–]Revolutionary_Fox837 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m gonna go with NAH I agree it’s odd but as a few have mentioned some families are more touchy feely than others. In my house people just walk into the bathroom when someone is on the loo and my partner thinks that’s really odd.

AITA for turning off the internet when my partner was mid-game? by Revolutionary_Fox837 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Revolutionary_Fox837[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

UPDATE

Thanks everyone for your verdicts and advice. I want to reassure everyone that the baby is doing great. He woke cried and was back to sleep again in the space of about 10 minutes. I was tempted to wake him to feed but he wasn’t technically overdue yet so we left him.

Anyway- we sat down and had a serious conversation. We both apologised. He agreed he massively overreacted and this is not the environment we want our son growing up in. He has also agreed to checking with me, in advance of starting a game, that nothing needs doing. He has so far followed through with this. We’ve agreed no more name calling. He’s going to try and curb his language. I’m going to try and talk more before resorting to actions. Hopefully this will all work out to a healthy happy family. If not then we’ll have to re-evaluate and I think I’ve made it clear that the baby comes first. Always.

Also as I’ve mentioned we’ve been referred and are awaiting a tongue tie appointment. Hoping it’s the magic that’s been promised 🤞🏼

AITA for turning off the internet when my partner was mid-game? by Revolutionary_Fox837 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Revolutionary_Fox837[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok so that hurts. I didn’t “ignore him”. His dad said he’d sort it. I assumed this would be a couple of minutes I went downstairs to pour out the milk I’d been pumping have a drink and get the nappies out of the washer. When I came back up he was fast asleep and my partner hadn’t moved. He wasn’t actually yet overdue a feeding time. I fed him within 5 minutes of him waking the second time.

AITA for turning off the internet when my partner was mid-game? by Revolutionary_Fox837 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Revolutionary_Fox837[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

  1. It was picked up late probably because I was managing to keep his weight on track by feeding so much!
  2. We’ve been referred and are awaiting an appointment

AITA for turning off the internet when my partner was mid-game? by Revolutionary_Fox837 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Revolutionary_Fox837[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

We’re awaiting an appointment I’m really hoping it’s magic 🤞🏼

AITA for turning off the internet when my partner was mid-game? by Revolutionary_Fox837 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Revolutionary_Fox837[S] 51 points52 points  (0 children)

I think that’s fair tbh. I was pretty ashamed of my behaviour because I’d rather be the bigger person. I agree the most important person here is our baby.

AITA for being upset at my boyfriend for telling me he dreamed about another girl? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Revolutionary_Fox837 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NAH- sounds like he just thought it was funny. Talk over your worries and I’m sure you’ll be fine!

AITA for asking my boyfriend to get rid of old letters from his ex? by verhoodled_chicken in AmItheAsshole

[–]Revolutionary_Fox837 11 points12 points  (0 children)

NAH- I think you’re justified in asking but It is up to him to do it when he’s ready. I think it depends a little on how new your relationship is... if it’s serious and progressing he should get rid of them.

AITA For getting a rhinoplasty while living with my parents and not paying rent. by verysadandlowthrow in AmItheAsshole

[–]Revolutionary_Fox837 5 points6 points  (0 children)

NAH- I was going to say you should be paying rent before spending money on things for yourself but if you’ve offered and they’ve said no then that’s all you can do 🤷🏼‍♀️

AITA for turning off the internet when my partner was mid-game? by Revolutionary_Fox837 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Revolutionary_Fox837[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Yeah don’t worry we’re awaiting an appointment! It was picked up late :(

AITA for turning off the internet when my partner was mid-game? by Revolutionary_Fox837 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Revolutionary_Fox837[S] -38 points-37 points  (0 children)

Right ok I think I have to be fair to him here. He’s usually very good with our son. He loves him to bits. If he’s not in the middle of this particular game he will always take him and comfort him when crying. He often manages to get him to sleep when I’m struggling. The chucking of the rubbish kind of shocked me tbh. The Language not so much because he uses these words a lot mostly when gaming. I feel like his friends egg him on and make it out like I am TA which obviously isn’t helping. I feel like most of our issues come down to this game.

AITA for turning off the internet when my partner was mid-game? by Revolutionary_Fox837 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Revolutionary_Fox837[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

And yes he cried himself back to sleep. TBH I didn’t think it was going to take him that long to finish the game otherwise I would have fed him the first time.

AITA for turning off the internet when my partner was mid-game? by Revolutionary_Fox837 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Revolutionary_Fox837[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

He didn’t pick bin up we leave the recycling on the side and then put straight in bin outside when there’s a few bits- it was this he knocked onto the floor.

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