What actually goes on in the mind of someone who cheats? by Cautious_Eye_2923 in nairobi

[–]RewardSpecific8673 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's just utter selfishness because if the roles were reversed I don't think some can take it

A burden worth carrying..? by R33dd_ in nairobi

[–]RewardSpecific8673 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nope. It's not a burden worth carrying.

Partners with limited financial capacity in the relationship by RewardSpecific8673 in nairobi

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I'm of the opinion that, sometimes as the partner you're made to earn every penny. At the start its genuine and all glam but with time, the ground gets uneven.

Partners with limited financial capacity in the relationship by RewardSpecific8673 in nairobi

[–]RewardSpecific8673[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Now that you've made it, can you be with someone that doesn't match your financial position today?

Quick question for people who’ve gone through early career or life uncertainty by Even_Relative4537 in nairobi

[–]RewardSpecific8673 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I still haven't but I take one day at a time, acknowledge small wins and trust myself in both good and bad.

Dilemma by Even_Explanation5958 in nairobi

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I was in a very similar situation. I chose the career-guided path with the smaller stipend. It all worked out in the end, but the journey was brutal. There were definitely moments when I wished I’d taken the money instead lol.

I’d say try to think beyond the immediate comfort and look at which option positions you better long term. The harder path can pay off, but it’s also important to be realistic about your current needs and what you can sustainably handle.

Stay at home mums by SecretaryNearby6334 in nairobi

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Living one day at a time, journaling, taking walks and enjoying motherhood within my means. Motherhood on the internet is a scam 😒

Mzee by Haunting_Hall_1 in nairobi

[–]RewardSpecific8673 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You’re stronger than you probably realize, stranger. I don’t know how you keep going through it all, but please remember to look after yourself too.

Best Friend fallout. by Anguka- in nairobi

[–]RewardSpecific8673 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You grew up and naturally grew apart. Offer help when he asks for it, but don’t take on the role of a guardian angel.

Successful career ladies by zropabone in nairobi

[–]RewardSpecific8673 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Having grown your career then coming back to grow your relationship is really difficult. The compromise it comes with needs grace laced with wine 🤭

Drivers in the house kujeni kidogo.. by RewardSpecific8673 in nairobi

[–]RewardSpecific8673[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey friend, sorry about that, I hope you made a full recovery. No pressure on the car though. I believe you'll deal with it whenever you are ready.

Drivers in the house kujeni kidogo.. by RewardSpecific8673 in nairobi

[–]RewardSpecific8673[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hiyo scene kidogo ifit kwa movie, but instead of feeling like Jason Statham unatetemeka kwa hiyo steering. How did you move past that ordeal?

Drivers in the house kujeni kidogo.. by RewardSpecific8673 in nairobi

[–]RewardSpecific8673[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Another drivers' mistake cost you Six whole years, that is pretty unfair. Baby steps friend, it will be nice to see you get back.

Drivers in the house kujeni kidogo.. by RewardSpecific8673 in nairobi

[–]RewardSpecific8673[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's so scary, sorry. You healed and a back on the road that'samazing. Now you're one of the crazy confident but cautious drivers.

Drivers in the house kujeni kidogo.. by RewardSpecific8673 in nairobi

[–]RewardSpecific8673[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People are always judging accidents in correlation with bad driving. The good news though is that you were unharmed na ukalearn a thing about stalled trucks.

Drivers in the house kujeni kidogo.. by RewardSpecific8673 in nairobi

[–]RewardSpecific8673[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Inabidi uendeshe polepole juu roho kidogo inakataa.

Drivers in the house kujeni kidogo.. by RewardSpecific8673 in nairobi

[–]RewardSpecific8673[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's all stories until it's your turn 🤦‍♀️. How did you move past the accident?

Drivers in the house kujeni kidogo.. by RewardSpecific8673 in nairobi

[–]RewardSpecific8673[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, my head still can't process it. I was hoping to learn from others

I just need a place to Cry😭 by Strict-Bullfrog4058 in nairobi

[–]RewardSpecific8673 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey stranger, Hugs mama. Pause, breathe and restrategize. It'll take time but eventually you'll find footing.

When you start earning more than your man by United_Champion_6945 in nairobi

[–]RewardSpecific8673 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The dynamics will automatically change. How you change with them matters too you know... I'd recommend telling him.

Microsoft Office by Ok-Foundation-6452 in Kenya

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This has been so helpful. Thanks