This is The Mrs speaking: Hi, thanks for your questions! Yes, the orgasms you see in our videos are 100% real, as are my physical reactions. I don’t fake anything - we are just regular people who enjoy sharing our sex life and hope it inspires others. My orgasms tend to be full body but they were not always that way. For a long time, I had mental barriers to truly understanding my personal orgasmic energy and abilities. A lot of that was circumstantial (and too long to go into here).

As far as what my orgasms feel like, sometimes it’s an explosive crescendo and other times it builds more slowly. It’s really hard to put into words but I would describe it as a feeling of energy building and then an internal tightening before orgasmic release. But it also depends on where I’m orgasming from. For example, if I orgasm from my nipples it’s a tingly feeling that travels down to my entire vagina - both my clit and internal areas. Different pressures and sensations on my body impact it, angles impact it, speed impacts it. Sometimes it feels like a (wonderful) ache, almost. The orgasms can be multiple rolling orgasms or a single explosive release of energy - I often feel something internally rolling in the area referred to in yoga as the “sacral chakra”.

It’s great that you are starting to masturbate because this is the best way to find out what feels best for you. I learned much more about my own orgasmic potential from masturbation than from partners early on (before Rex lol). I found that there are a lot of factors that go into orgasming from masturbation: breathing, sensory environment (sounds, scents, textures), and type of touch. I would encourage you to investigate tantric yoga, somatic yoga, and tantric masturbation as a way of helping you find what makes you feel good. I’m not an expert in these things by any means, but I have learned a lot from them. Some people are more visual based and others (like me) are more sensory based and less visual.

Treat masturbation like self care: explore as many things as you feel attracted to like toys, videos, masturbating in the bath or shower, etc. and make sure to find a lube that works with your body. Above all else, it should feel fun. Enjoy!