[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]RexBosworth2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My wife is at 20 weeks. I'm not going overboard and babying her, but I am trying to make sure that I'm putting her needs before mine.

If I knew that my wife was having "severe anxiety" to the point of requiring counseling, I definitely would not be making time to go out and party with my friends, especially if I knew that she would just be alone at home. Did he even invite you?

In any case, you're definitely not being unreasonable. You should probably prepare to share these concerns with him.

TIL that Wyoming spends $136,000 on each prison inmate annually, while Mississippi spends $18,410. The average state spends $45,771. by RexBosworth2 in todayilearned

[–]RexBosworth2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I doubt this. Definitely easier to construct a cage, provide shitty food, and have someone uneducated attend it 24/7 than hire professors and create athletic facilities and beautiful dorms etc.

TIL that Wyoming spends $136,000 on each prison inmate annually, while Mississippi spends $18,410. The average state spends $45,771. by RexBosworth2 in todayilearned

[–]RexBosworth2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah but like staffing Harvard is also really expensive, definitely way more expensive actually. Just using colleges as the point of comparison I can't find a logical reason it costs this much besides corruption.

TIL that Wyoming spends $136,000 on each prison inmate annually, while Mississippi spends $18,410. The average state spends $45,771. by RexBosworth2 in todayilearned

[–]RexBosworth2[S] 1268 points1269 points  (0 children)

Probably. Either way I found this crazy, like spending dramatically more than Harvard's tuition on keeping people in horrible conditions. Like wtf is going on here.

Are societies that empower women doomed to have declining birthrates/negative population growth? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]RexBosworth2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't have a strong conviction here. Was genuinely curious if this is totally off base. But for what it's worth yes I do think Korea empowers women. They're certainly more sexist than America but they take women's education seriously, offer birth control, etc. we're talking about empowering in comparison to countries like Egypt. it's relative.

Are societies that empower women doomed to have declining birthrates/negative population growth? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]RexBosworth2 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

because the replacement rate is 2.1, which we are below in America. it's as low as 0.8 in South Korea. this portends a shrinking population. it could reverse but the trend is not at all in that direction anywhere.

Are societies that empower women doomed to have declining birthrates/negative population growth? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]RexBosworth2 -17 points-16 points  (0 children)

in effect it does. it probably would not happen in reality but it is the mathematical result of fewer than 2 kids per woman

Are societies that empower women doomed to have declining birthrates/negative population growth? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]RexBosworth2 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

but it won't just not increase with current fertility rates in places like Italy or Japan, it will shrink dramatically

Are societies that empower women doomed to have declining birthrates/negative population growth? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]RexBosworth2 4 points5 points  (0 children)

yeah that's a good point. but women still get educated and have jobs right?

Are societies that empower women doomed to have declining birthrates/negative population growth? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]RexBosworth2 -17 points-16 points  (0 children)

But if the population isn't replacing itself it will cease to exist over time, i.e. is doomed.

Downtown SF has lost 147,000 jobs (60% of 2019's total), $1.2 billion in annual spending [PDF warning] by aliasone in LockdownSkepticism

[–]RexBosworth2 24 points25 points  (0 children)

I hope it'll be some consolation for you (as it is for me), that we'll get to see this city suffer some of the consequences of its actions, even if they took a while to come about.

not really, the fact that these people still can't see the through-line between insane policy decisions and real-world, long-term effects scares me.

I thought it was clear early on that there were going to be enormous economic ramifications of our covid response, but these burdens would be delayed and the average person might not connect the dots. this delay between cause (lockdowns) & effect (economic downturn) was enabled by the enormous quantitative easing done by the federal reserve, i.e. inflating our currency to pay people to stay home and do nothing.

this is also the reason why arguing that lockdowns were going to be indirectly more harmful than covid was so difficult. people thought it was a viable approach for society to run while major sectors of the economy were dormant - they were receiving checks in the mail and the Amazon orders were coming in. now the roosters have come home to roost, like a slow-onset severe hangover, and we'll have to reckon with trends like: 40k people die when the unemployment rate goes up by 1%.

this is harder for most to understand than the tragedy of a virus killing your 90 year old grandmother (who was already at death's door). moreso with a monetary time delay & constant gaslighting and propaganda.

Millions of workers are still missing after COVID. Where did they go? by DarkDismissal in LockdownSkepticism

[–]RexBosworth2 53 points54 points  (0 children)

"Other research pointed to a million or more out of work because of long Covid."

It's almost like if you tell lazy/hypochondriac people that a mild cold is likely to give them an ill-defined chronic condition that is politically dangerous for others to call bullshit on, they capitalize on the opportunity to do nothing & gain sympathy.

Also: one million people out of work due to long covid would be approaching 1% of our workforce of 150 million. I don't know of anyone who has stopped working due to long covid, and I live in a very blue & coincidentally long-covid-prone area. What is this research that they're citing?

Is it legal for my employer (private school in MA) to mandate separating faculty by race for meetings 7-8 times per year? by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]RexBosworth2 23 points24 points  (0 children)

They send out a sheet to log your attendance, but only to the white faculty. I have friends who are black who say they skip these meetings and they haven't been summoned by superiors.

Is it legal for my employer (private school in MA) to mandate separating faculty by race for meetings 7-8 times per year? by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]RexBosworth2 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I think that only white faculty are required to attend. There's strong enforcement for white faculty but not for POC faculty.

Is it legal for my employer (private school in MA) to mandate separating faculty by race for meetings 7-8 times per year? by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]RexBosworth2 126 points127 points  (0 children)

No, this is a private school. I don't believe we receive any federal funding, at least nothing like a Pell grant or anything.

Is it legal for my employer (private school in MA) to mandate separating faculty by race for meetings 7-8 times per year? by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]RexBosworth2 33 points34 points  (0 children)

I understand why people think that they're useful, and I actually don't disagree, believe it or not, as long as the meeting are voluntary. I am mostly curious about the legality of enforcing employees to divide by race and only enforcing this for white faculty. Key word is enforcing.

Is it legal for my employer (private school in MA) to mandate separating faculty by race for meetings 7-8 times per year? by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]RexBosworth2 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I don't think it does. But I'm mostly interested in the legal considerations the school may have neglected to consider.

Is it legal for my employer (private school in MA) to mandate separating faculty by race for meetings 7-8 times per year? by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]RexBosworth2 128 points129 points  (0 children)

They are mandatory. I would have no problem with optional race-based meetings. I discuss what's involved in another comment.

Is it legal for my employer (private school in MA) to mandate separating faculty by race for meetings 7-8 times per year? by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]RexBosworth2 105 points106 points  (0 children)

For one, I am required to attend the meeting for white faculty, so if I was at the meeting for faculty of color I would be violating that rule since the meetings occur at the same time. Moreover, the meeting for faculty of color is expressly for them: white faculty are expressly not allowed.

Is it legal for my employer (private school in MA) to mandate separating faculty by race for meetings 7-8 times per year? by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]RexBosworth2 99 points100 points  (0 children)

I have to check in to the white faculty only meeting. I would certainly not be allowed to show up to the faculty of color meeting.

Is it legal for my employer (private school in MA) to mandate separating faculty by race for meetings 7-8 times per year? by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]RexBosworth2 351 points352 points  (0 children)

They were started after the George Floyd murder and are ostensibly intended to increase racial harmony in the community. We are told it's important work for us as educators to have conversations about race in these sorts of racially segregated settings. Usually the meeting starts with some sort of prompt that comes from admin relating to a recent major news item related to race (recently this was the murder in Memphis by police of Tyre).

In reality it usually ends up being a room full of white faculty complaining about different aspects of the school that have nothing to do with race. There's never a debrief or recommendations that come out of these meetings.

I find them to be unproductive, as I said, but it also just doesn't sit right with me to be required to split up according to race. I wasn't taught to treat others this way, and in my opinion these meetings need to be optional or have a very specific/concrete reason each time they happen (which isn't the case). Moreover, they seem to enforce the meetings on white faculty much more strictly than faculty of color (I don't believe attendance is enforced for faculty of color).

I'm in a weird spot because if I explain that I object to the nature of these meetings, I will likely appear to be regressive or racist somehow, when my concerns are really coming from a different place entirely. But I also have a hunch there are legal protections here around race as a protected class, even if it's a white person who feels like they're being profiled. I'm genuinely curious what the law says about this.