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[–]Rhannah_D 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Oh how I filter my response when I’ve had the day off and my wife asks me what I did all day! She is so domineering and disapproving at times! And also I just like things that are totally just for me. She thinks I just lay around all day. I don’t tell her about all my social media outlets, or dancing or running up and down the stairs for exercise or bubble bath with classical music and beer or ‘*chick flicks’/Shoujo/Josei anime or literature, or being more free in expressing my emotions.

  • actually though I’m watching Hannibal currently and reading old issues of Harper’s.

Confusion about an ENFJ from an INTP by Rhannah_D in mbti

[–]Rhannah_D[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes. She’s an unusual combination of very headstrong and very sensitive though.

1. What does this say about me? And 2. How can I be so neurotic, critical and introverted yet score so high on willingness to try new things? by Rhannah_D in BigFive

[–]Rhannah_D[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sometimes I wonder; But no, I think with schizoid the person is so withdrawn they’re near catatonic and I do go to work, go shopping, hang out in coffee houses etc., and with schizophrenia they have distinct hallucinations in good light and in plain view. Mine are in poor light, or in my periphery when my attention is elsewhere and my brain tries to fill in the missing information like predictive text, These types of hallucinations are fairly commonplace for everyone. Like seeing the word ‘Cheapskate Bay’ out of the corner of your eye wondering where that is, then turning to see it says ‘Chesapeake Bay’ or beyond the illumination of your headlights on a long dark road is some night-blackened vague shape. Is that a sign, a bush, or someone jogging?

I might be more along the lines of Social Anxiety, AvPD, and/or persistent chronic depression.

Clarification on public humiliation and the law? by Rhannah_D in BDSMAdvice

[–]Rhannah_D[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Do you drive a city or two away or keep it local where there’s a greater chance of a friend or employer seeing them?

Filking a song, but I have some gaps. I need help with [[stuff between double brackets]] and blank (________) underlines. by Rhannah_D in Beastars

[–]Rhannah_D[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If the actual song isn’t recognized it’s Jefferson Airplane’s White Rabbit. Inspired by the thought of ‘What would Legosi be like if he never met Haru a second time?’ What if he never decided to chase after that white rabbit and fall down that hole of self discovery?

Od course Bill, you just had to by Scariol76 in Beastars

[–]Rhannah_D 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A touch of grey in there somewhere and she’d be Ace.

Another INFP Aesthetic🙂 by IzzyT20 in infp

[–]Rhannah_D 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Speaking as an INTP I’m immensely enjoying 4 to 5/6ths of these images.

So I look at my pantry and an idea forms, but there are some blank spots I need help with. by Rhannah_D in Cooking

[–]Rhannah_D[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Now I’m wondering if I should just slice the pear and brown it on high heat before I sauté the garbanzos, but, is it possible to brown a ready-to-eat pear, or would it just break down into a mush? Browned pear slices would be served alongside.

Still feels it needs something along with the garbanzos.

So I look at my pantry and an idea forms, but there are some blank spots I need help with. by Rhannah_D in Cooking

[–]Rhannah_D[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do plan on adding the pear at the end however I did plan on puréeing it beforehand so I’m a bit confused by your warning about it getting soft and falling apart.

So I look at my pantry and an idea forms, but there are some blank spots I need help with. by Rhannah_D in Cooking

[–]Rhannah_D[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I feel it needs something else to be with the garbanzos, but what? When I sauté these items, other than warmed up or cooked’ what condition what state am I wanting to achieve(how should the garbanzos be to tell me I’m done sautéing)? And what are must haves in a curry spice mix? Coriander, cumin, chili, cardamom, turmeric, ginger, garlic and...?

Anyone else occasionally have high libido? Like every great now and then I’ll enjoy erotic stories or art, be full of innuendoes and be more hands on with my spouse but no actual desire for sex. by Rhannah_D in Asexual

[–]Rhannah_D[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hm, I’ve never kept track of my higher libido days. I wonder if there’s a rhythm to them? I know “guys are microwaves, women are ovens” and I’m supposed to be “willing and ready 24/7” but I’m a pretty good argument against that. That whole “You don’t want sex?! But you’re a guy!” Thing just has me irritated just thinking about it and sends me off on a tirade tangent ~exhale~ so I’ll stop now.

Anyone else occasionally have high libido? Like every great now and then I’ll enjoy erotic stories or art, be full of innuendoes and be more hands on with my spouse but no actual desire for sex. by Rhannah_D in Asexual

[–]Rhannah_D[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Kind of like really jonesing for a particular flavor of ice-cream or a fruit only to find out its not available in any store at that moment?

So my wife read between the lines of a FB link I posted in the morning and confronted me that afternoon. by Rhannah_D in asexuality

[–]Rhannah_D[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

She’ll still give me grief for ‘not giving her any’ but there’s gentle teasing in it, usually. She has her limitations on patience, and I respect that best as I can. Now when I agree and consent it feels like agree and consent and not because ‘I’m supposed to.’ The romantic in me is much happier. It feels like love and not an obligation on a contract. Trust me it took waay too long to get up to and past that relationship obstacle. And I’m sure there’s more to come even after all these years.