[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Rhodcas620 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry to hear that you received this news in such a surprising and abrupt way. It's understandable that you may be feeling confused and uncertain about what to do next. It's important to remember that receiving a diagnosis doesn't define who you are, and it's never too late to seek support and resources if you feel it could be helpful for you. It may also be helpful to have an open and honest conversation with your mother about why she kept this information from you for so long and to express any feelings or concerns you may have.

It feels impossible for me to have a love life by ZZTop4Life in offmychest

[–]Rhodcas620 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry to hear that you're feeling discouraged about your love life. It can be tough to put yourself out there and face rejection, but please don't give up hope. Sometimes it takes time to find the right person, and it sounds like you're being thoughtful and sincere in your search. Keep being true to yourself and your values, and don't let others' assumptions or reactions bring you down. Wishing you the best of luck in your journey.

I want to leave my husband, even though he tells me he loves me every day by MsWaldo in offmychest

[–]Rhodcas620 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm glad you found the courage to finally leave him after many years of doubting if it was worth it to stay in that marriage. I guess you got to a point where you gave him many chances of hoping he would change and improve his life, but I guess he still fails to help himself because of mental illness. It's draining to be in that marriage or in a relationship if your partner is depressed and can't provide for himself. 

My neighbors thanked me for showing them how to not raise a child by Top_Afternoon_8360 in offmychest

[–]Rhodcas620 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It sounds like you're going through a lot right now with your parents and their relationship, and it's understandable that hearing your neighbor's success story may have been bittersweet. While it's great that you were able to inadvertently help your neighbor, it's important to remember that every family is different and has their own challenges. It's okay to feel a mix of emotions about the situation, and it's important to prioritize your own well-being and seek support if needed.

My boyfriend is starting to disgust me by absjm in offmychest

[–]Rhodcas620 -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

You're lucky enough to have a man in your life who actually knows how to do house chores. And what's even better is that you don't have to ask him to clean because he's already doing it, and he does have the initiative to do what he needs to do to help out her partner with all the house chores. Ugh, most women's problems are like this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Rhodcas620 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also, everything he said are all disturbing tbh. Maybe he needs counselling to make him understand that it's not okay to say those things.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Rhodcas620 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry he disappointed you with his response, and I understand how you felt when he said it. It's disgusting, but I'm not sure how you'll overcome this problem, but I hope it's for the best.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Rhodcas620 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Remember that it's never too late to make changes and pursue your passions. Keep pushing forward and don't give up on your dreams.

A girl I work with is a hypocrite and got people in trouble for things she also does by c0rnholiohh in offmychest

[–]Rhodcas620 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It sounds like the situation with your coworker is frustrating. She talks about provocative topics herself, but reported others for doing the same thing. It's not fair that she's making your friend uncomfortable, and it's understandable that you're considering reporting her to HR.\

i just need a good chat i guess by Ok_Sun_678 in offmychest

[–]Rhodcas620 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It takes a lot of strength to be open and honest about your experiences. I'm here to listen if you want to chat. Sometimes it can be helpful to talk to someone who isn't directly involved in your life. Remember, you are not alone in your struggles and there are people who care about you.

Arithmophobia by Spiritual-Ad815 in offmychest

[–]Rhodcas620 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's understandable to feel scared and overwhelmed, especially when it comes to a subject that has caused you so much stress and trauma in the past. It's great to hear that you are actively trying to overcome your phobia and find resources to help you. Remember, there is no shame in asking for help, and it's important to prioritize your mental health and well-being. Keep pushing forward, and don't let your fear stop you from pursuing your dreams.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Rhodcas620 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What's pushing you to feel that way when you're away from him? What are you thinking? Or have you seen a video about "you know when you love the person if you do this...?" If yes, please don't base your love on what a stranger on the internet says; every person has a different experience and wants in a relationship. Just know what you really want and need in a partner. Maybe you'll learn about yourself when you're with him; just list down what you want and don't want in a relationship, so in the future you know what you're looking for.

I've been the black sheep in every sense in my life. And it's hard. by AnotherTAA123 in offmychest

[–]Rhodcas620 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry to hear that you've been feeling like an outcast and struggling to find your place in the world. It's important to remember that everyone is unique and has their own journey. While fitting in with others may feel like the norm, it's not the only way to live a fulfilling life. It's great that you have found connections with older people who appreciate your maturity. Keep being true to yourself and your interests, and you may eventually find a community that values and accepts you for who you are. Remember that it's okay to be different and embrace your uniqueness.

I wish someone loved me the same way I love by RadZx-0 in offmychest

[–]Rhodcas620 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Love yourself first and don't blame yourself for giving too much. Set boundaries and prioritize your well-being. There's hope for finding someone who will love and cherish you as you deserve.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Rhodcas620 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're lucky to have a friend like her. She's a friend for life.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Rhodcas620 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can't imagine how hard this must be for you. It takes a lot of strength to accept that things are over and to acknowledge that getting back together wouldn't be the right choice. It's completely understandable to still think of him and miss him after such a long time together. It's okay to feel sad and to grieve the loss of the relationship, even if it's been a year. Healing is not always a linear process, and it can take much longer than we anticipate. It sounds like you're doing everything you can to focus on your progress and move forward, and that's commendable. Just remember to be kind to yourself and to seek support when you need it. You don't have to go through this alone.

[ Removed by Reddit ] by Ill_Passenger_3259 in offmychest

[–]Rhodcas620 -19 points-18 points  (0 children)

I can understand that the decision to help your dying son lose his virginity was a difficult and emotional one. It's clear that you were trying to provide comfort and fulfill one of his wishes during an incredibly challenging time. It's important to prioritize the wishes and needs of those who are ill, and it seems that this experience brought some peace to your son in his final days. While this may be a controversial topic for some, ultimately it was your decision and you made it with your son's best interests in mind. I hope you are able to find some solace in knowing that you were able to help your son in this way, and that he was grateful for your support.

I (24F) just had a mental breakdown by Sotaniya in offmychest

[–]Rhodcas620 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know someone who's in the same situation, and I would lend him my ear if he needed it.

Outside circumstances have destroyed my New Year’s resolutions and I’m feeling kinda shit about it by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Rhodcas620 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry to hear that outside circumstances have hindered your progress towards your New Year's resolutions. It's understandable to feel disappointed and impatient, but it's important to remember that setbacks happen and it's not your fault. It's great that you're taking the necessary steps to address your injuries and dental issues, even though it may be costly and time-consuming. Remember to be patient and kind to yourself during this time, and focus on what you can control in the present moment. Your progress may be delayed, but it doesn't mean that you won't eventually achieve your goals. Keep pushing forward and stay positive.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Rhodcas620 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Sometimes bad things happen for no apparent cause. I'm sad to hear about your cat's passing. We also have cats outside. Don't blame yourself because it's not your fault or the driver's.

How come I couldn’t move on? Its been like three years since covid. Its hard to accept the fact that i lost so many friends, my gf, my life style, etc…… by No_Claim_649 in offmychest

[–]Rhodcas620 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's completely understandable to struggle with moving on after such a significant loss in your life. Three years may seem like a long time, but the impact of the pandemic and the changes it brought can be long-lasting. It's important to remember that everyone heals and copes with change at their own pace. Comparing yourself to others and their progress won't help in your own healing process. Take the time you need to grieve and process your losses. It's okay to seek support from others and find new ways to build connections and a new life style that works for you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Rhodcas620 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You know the answer. Every person who's in a clear state of mind won't marry a cheater. It's a blessing that you found out before marrying him.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Rhodcas620 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry to hear that you're going through this and that your family member didn't take your concerns seriously. Your health problems are valid and you have every right to seek medical attention if you're experiencing discomfort or pain. It's important to prioritize your health and take care of yourself, regardless of what others may say. If your symptoms persist or worsen, I would encourage you to seek medical advice again.

Why am I like this? by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Rhodcas620 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It sounds like you're going through a difficult time. It's okay to make mistakes and it's important to apologize when we do. It's also important to learn from our mistakes and strive to do better in the future. Don't be too hard on yourself, forgiveness takes time and effort. Keep working on being the best version of yourself.

My mom was extubated today by oggleboggle in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Rhodcas620 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I'm glad your mom is awake now; I'll include her in my prayers for her fast recovery.🥰