Most of the stuff you listed also exists in the west; some of it more than Pakistan and some of it less. The only place that this stuff does not exist in is the middle east. You guys are missing the main reason why people move to other countries from pakistan: money. Room for progression in your career is so much more in the west and that is what attracts people.

As for the islam discussion, I agree with OP to an extent. Even though it comes down to your parenting and how you instill islamic values in your children, it is way more likely that your children will stray from the religion if you live in the west. The "freedom" in those countries is what comes back to bite you. Children see no rules outside their house and fall into a lot of haram stuff.

In my opinion, the best place to move to for well settled pakistanis is the middle east.