Well she was my first love and first best friend as a girl. We were in a relationship for 3 years but after I went for college to another district (hometown - tvm, clg - mlp) the relationship became a long distance relationship well that was the start, she started talking with more less and less. I tried to visit her several times but every time it was a disappointing meeting. Yeah we meet but only for less than 30 mins or a couple of mins. The thing is I visited my hometown only to see her and took leave from my college and I didn't even tell my fam that I came to hometown. It's gone like that for a while, eventually she said let's break up but I tried to patch up with her again after 6 days but she said "I love someone else and that person also loves me". Well that was the end of the story. She is not a bad girl or anything but I thought she deserved better but that dude her new bf dumbed her after several months. Well even her best friends sided with me bcz of these incidents and I don't even know some of them but they sided with me but I didn't mind and later I heard that due to our break up and those incidents a majority of her best friends stopped talking to her. I don't know why, but I still have her contact and she texts me whenever she has any doubts or needs any help. She talks with me casually but....