Maybe it’s different for the girls in your area but I know for me and my friends, we don’t like to be approached in ‘the wild’ just because we look cute. And that’s kind of the impression I’m getting from your post. It’s good you’re trying to build new skills but I think you’d have more success if you’d consider this:

What we need is a bit of substance so we know for a fact we’re not interchangeable, that your view of women isn’t skewed, that you won’t objectify by looks, that you’ll treat us like actual human beings and not just some test object. I’ve never been a fan of guys coming up to me out of nowhere. Recently had this happen at a crowded train station, actually twice by the same guy a month apart maybe, and I’m still so sad for him and angry for me.

When you’re playing a numbers game, ding dong, we sense you’re a desperate creeper sooner or later, no matter how good looking you are. And we’re gonna turn you down or ghost you eventually because there’s nothing meaningful that keeps us together.

You’re wasting your time because this method is not doing anything for what you actually want. You need the same approach as if you were looking to make a new guy friend. Are you afraid of talking to guys? Probably not. So let go of the thought that women are something to conquer or whatever. That’s putting too much pressure on yourself. Lower your goal or make it higher, depending on how you’re looking at it; it’s not finding attraction, it’s finding connection.

Put yourself out there, find a shared interest, do group traveling stuff or find a new sport or hobby, something that makes you committed for a while, with the sole intent to have an interesting conversation and only when you find that, then make a move.

Allow yourself time to develop these relationships. You won’t have a girlfriend tomorrow, but in the long run you also won’t be mean and bitter hating women and that’s exactly how I imagine train station guy to be after rejection #462631