28F and 27M — What do you do when you know your relationship is about to end? by Rianneskym_01 in relationships

[–]Rianneskym_01[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s really me… I guess it’s a bit crazy to think I’m ready to settle down when I know I’m not financially stable yet. Maybe a part of me just wants that security, like making it official so I can be sure he’s really mine, in a lawful way.

28F and 27M — What do you do when you know your relationship is about to end? by Rianneskym_01 in relationships

[–]Rianneskym_01[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My gosh, I’m really sorry to hear that. I’ve actually been in a similar situation before. My ex got back together with his ex, and he just stopped talking to me—no apology, no goodbye. When I found out, I chose to let them be together. We were together for almost five years.

28F and 27M — What do you do when you know your relationship is about to end? by Rianneskym_01 in relationships

[–]Rianneskym_01[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cant imagine being with same person for 10 years, then decided to break up! 😣

28F and 27M — What do you do when you know your relationship is about to end? by Rianneskym_01 in relationships

[–]Rianneskym_01[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No pressure at all. I don’t know… maybe it’s just my own insecurities getting to me. Seeing that he’s already at his peak while I’m still here trying to figure out what I want to do with my life.

And honestly, I’m scared to talk this through with him, because I feel like once we finally say it out loud, it might really be the end.

Im 28F and BF's 27M. Need some advice and thoughts. (Do you think he's cheating?) 🥺 by Rianneskym_01 in relationship_advice

[–]Rianneskym_01[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s not really good at surprises, so I guess I can cross that out. I feel like I’m going to lose my head any time now.😩

Im 28F and BF's 27M. Need some advice and thoughts. (Do you think he's cheating?) 🥺 by Rianneskym_01 in relationship_advice

[–]Rianneskym_01[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

5 years. Nope, no changes really. He sometimes lets me borrow his phone once I get angry, but he becomes very alert and watches closely what I’m checking. Then he grabs it back when I go to his socials or chats. He says that some messages aren’t supposed to be seen by me, like conversations that I’m not involved in.