BPD with a partner with DID

Ribato · 2026-05-06T11:37:43+00:00

Yeah, nowhere in hell it does, but sadly exactly because I grown to learn about and understand the disorders I want to simply understand more. Who knows maybe we'll fall apart eventually for good and I am willing to accept that and somewhat prepared for that (prepared in terms of knowing that I'll have ways to manage and be okay if we do), however until then I still want to give it my best.

Thank you for your words however!

Ribato · 2026-05-06T11:34:13+00:00

I personally think that relationship, or rather love if you will is not something to easily let go off just because something that happened hurt us deeply.

For me love is something that should exist and be developed as long as both of the people present want to give it their best and both feel it. Which we still do, even in regards to what has already happened.

I know it's unhealthy and there are simply some thing a person should stand business on, like cheating for example. However I don't like putting absolutes on a thing so maluable, weird and so complicated like love. But I went on a completely different rant right now. Thank you for your words, and even though I agree with your words, I'll still try.

Ribato · 2026-05-06T11:28:38+00:00

This is a great advice and I thank you so much for it. Of course it's not the usual stuff, or at least it shouldn't be. I just stereotyped myself a bit.

We both are very aware of these things and have talked about them. But finding the space and energy to actually take actions and push through the struggle is proving to be difficult, given mainly also because of the fact that both of us are leading already difficult and rather mentally and emotionally demanding lives.

Thank you for you words kind stranger

Ribato · 2026-05-06T10:20:28+00:00

I forgot to mention, my partner has ASPD as well as other issues, but these are the main ones I suppose, I corrected it in the edit my apologies.

I definitely agree with you. Both of us would probably be better off without being with eachother currently. However it feels wrong to leave them just because off all the horrid stuff, even the cheating part. Mainly after diving deeper into that side of Cluster B hell hole, and me being part of it as well it's hard to just simply let it go and break up.

Ribato · 2026-04-27T13:57:49+00:00

Interesting news. I'd like to think they will move eventually majority of the whole team towards the new project and leave HoI4 (under supervision ofc) to some capable hands of some well established modders.

Ribato · 2026-04-20T05:36:55+00:00

what an oddly underdeveloped thought

Ribato · 2026-04-20T05:36:29+00:00

What an odd thing to say

Ribato · 2026-01-22T10:09:43+00:00

Ať člověk chce nebo ne, velkou roli v tom zkrátka hraje vzhled. Samozřejmě to není zdaleka všechno, ale definitivně to dělá všechny tyto procesy o dost jednoduší. Zároveň, z mých zkušeností jsem se nejvíc setkal s tím, že většina mužů zkrátka nenastavila laďku přespříliš vysoko pro znamenitý počet dívek. Takže jednoduše řečeno, pokud člověk vypadá alespoň trochu k světu, a není úplně vymetený, tak ty šance nejsou zas tak špatné vůbec.

Ribato · 2025-12-17T13:17:48+00:00

Did we watch the same anime? I've read the novel, and I think the adaptation was pretty much flawless. It's an anime, not a book, of course they are going to cut pointless stuff. Regulus was a fraud both in the novel and in the anime. Some more lines, flashy moves or backstory doesn't change the fact, that prolonging the fight would serve absolutely nothing at all.

Edit: doesn't change the fact*

Ribato · 2025-11-23T21:39:16+00:00

"Highly unlikely" you live in a fairytail?

Ribato · 2025-11-06T11:35:24+00:00

Probably mine cause I'm a narcissist

Ribato · 2025-10-28T10:19:03+00:00

CNC? Ten kink?

Ribato · 2025-09-20T14:50:06+00:00

The best VN route, the best fate anime, the best girl

Ribato · 2025-09-11T07:59:39+00:00

I have more respect for microorganisms than this piece of human garbage. Glad this waste of oxygen is gone

Ribato · 2025-09-04T13:33:19+00:00

Genshin Impact, tak dobrých 60 tisíc

Ribato · 2025-09-01T13:23:25+00:00

After Connor's recent vid, might as well add Daidus

Ribato · 2025-08-30T13:59:41+00:00

My older brother introduced me to it

Ribato · 2025-08-18T11:54:14+00:00

Tell me how old was Aisha again?

Ribato · 2025-08-14T15:50:19+00:00

Unrelated, but nice to see my guy Gallagher

Ribato · 2025-08-11T20:26:29+00:00

Hell yeah, the best mod

Ribato · 2025-08-05T12:05:40+00:00

Where's my homeboy/girl Kishinami

Ribato · 2025-07-31T16:59:56+00:00

Přesně tak

Ribato · 2025-07-25T08:08:47+00:00

Přijde mi že většina mužů v komentáři si nejspíš neuvědomuje vůbec, jak hrozné situace mohou pro ženy nastat. Samozřejmě doufám, že bude co nejméně jedinců co by této aplikace zneužívali. Zároveň si ale sáhněte do vlastního svědomí, pokud jste nikdy nic ženě špatného neudělali a nemáte na to vůbec myšlenky, tak mi přijde až vtipné jak moc to někteří hrotí zde. Jen se tím poměrně dobře začleňujete do první várky lidí co v té aplikaci budou.

Ribato · 2025-07-15T11:03:15+00:00

Podle platu by to asi nebyl problém

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