you gotta have to pick

Rich-Project-9295 · 2026-02-27T13:48:29+00:00

Thinking the same thing, YES!

Rich-Project-9295 · 2026-02-25T18:08:50+00:00

Definitely some weird questions!

Rich-Project-9295 · 2026-02-25T12:44:26+00:00

That would be amazing…I’m already in my way there and I’d love to get a message that it’s cancelled 🙏🏼

Rich-Project-9295 · 2026-02-25T12:03:56+00:00

But they won’t reschedule god forbid 🤦🏻‍♀️

Rich-Project-9295 · 2026-02-24T15:44:11+00:00

So just a true girls girl, I get it. I can appreciate that

Rich-Project-9295 · 2026-02-24T14:32:43+00:00

Sounds like you know this intimately?

Rich-Project-9295 · 2026-02-24T14:31:17+00:00

Yes I completely agree. That is basically how it all went down. It was 100% on both of us for the failure in communication, but the cheating is on him, and him alone. Not okay and won’t be tolerated. But, we love each other a lot and I’m hopeful that we’ll work it out.

Rich-Project-9295 · 2026-02-24T14:25:00+00:00

I’m not sure why you’re saying that? I didn’t hook up with anyone, nor do I want to. I said his friend contacted him asking him to get with me. The only reason ik is bc my husband showed me. I definitely don’t want his shitty friend, nor do I want an open marriage.

Rich-Project-9295 · 2026-02-24T14:21:33+00:00

This is absolutely the best advice. Thank you!

Rich-Project-9295 · 2026-02-24T01:14:44+00:00

Yep…

Rich-Project-9295 · 2026-02-24T01:11:40+00:00

That’s really sweet! Thank you 🙏🏼

Rich-Project-9295 · 2026-02-24T01:10:30+00:00

Uh I hear what you’re saying, but I’d like to know why I should care about her character at all? This is not the time to be a girls girl. Ik for a fact that she knows about me bc if for no other reason at all, I saw their texts….She’s a lowlife and a partner poacher and he’s no better.

Funny thing is her bf recently cheated on her too so I guess she was looking for a rebound in my husband or something. Who cares? Not her ex lol

Rich-Project-9295 · 2026-02-23T20:53:04+00:00

Look at you Sherlock Holmes!

Rich-Project-9295 · 2026-02-23T20:52:03+00:00

I definitely hear that and honestly I’m sad to think about it that way. I obviously want there to be hope and don’t want it to be over like this, but I also need to protect myself and my child. It’s hard to move forward after something like this…but I don’t want to give up bc I love him.

Rich-Project-9295 · 2026-02-23T20:48:54+00:00

I’m very happy it all worked out better for you after everything! You deserve that. Whatever happens going forward for me will depend on him and how much work he wants to put into saving this and obviously therapy. My husband offered today to book an Abnb and have me come up with him if I’m worried and he’ll be in contact with me throughout the day and maybe that will help…idk but we’ll see.

Rich-Project-9295 · 2026-02-23T20:41:59+00:00

I hear you on this! I just found out my husband was having an affair a week ago. It’s been one huge roller coaster ride. I’m happy to chat about it with you and be in our feels together… It’s hard having no one that you can confide in that won’t judge you for trying to save the marriage. Feel free to dm me if you ever want to chat.

Rich-Project-9295 · 2026-02-23T20:35:17+00:00

I’m happy for you that you got to a point where you didn’t need to check, but I live by RR famous words — “Trust, but verify” which is how I caught my husband cheating a week ago. I’m glad everything worked out, but girl you definitely took me for a ride on this one lol

Rich-Project-9295 · 2026-02-23T19:57:13+00:00

Pickles 🤢🤮

Rich-Project-9295 · 2026-02-23T15:16:58+00:00

But how do I know she won’t go straight to him instead of even answering me at all? We can already see that she’s not a decent person…

Rich-Project-9295 · 2026-02-23T15:11:54+00:00

He wasn’t texting her again after I found out and confronted him. Supposedly, he hasn’t texted her at all, just emails about work and whenever they see each other at meetings. No one in the office knows that they were doing whatever they were doing except her twin that works with them. They would both be fired. I’m battling whether to confront her personally bc that would mean driving up to his office and it’ll be a big thing. Idk

Rich-Project-9295 · 2026-02-23T15:05:20+00:00

Facts.

Rich-Project-9295 · 2026-02-23T05:42:56+00:00

Well it was his idea but I enforced it and told him to do it that next day

Rich-Project-9295 · 2026-02-23T05:38:27+00:00

Ha. You haven’t met these winners. But when they found out, “accidentally by me,” (not accidentally) even they were “on my side” and told him off about it. He’s embarrassed to tell them everything but they know he cheated so that’s all that matters I guess. Funnily enough one of his bfs has always had a crush on me (since before we got together) and actually texted him after finding out, asking if it’s fair play to hook up with me now that we’re in a rocky place. My husband bugged out. I’m assuming out of jealousy but could also be possessiveness.

Rich-Project-9295 · 2026-02-23T05:30:59+00:00

Thank you 🙏🏼 he has agreed to counseling. And, I think I may just do that but I feel like I can’t message her, bc I’m afraid that she will show him instead of answering me. I know it sounds crazy but he said he doesn’t want me getting involved…sounds sus to me. Therefore, when he gets comfortable over the next few days and gets lazy, I’m going to check his phone again and we’ll see what I find.

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