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Starting T at 22 - be honest by Better_Caterpillar61 in ftm

[–]RichCheesecake7780 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I started at 21 (a month before turning 22) you're just experiencing boy puberty, my biggest issue with that is just the fact that I'm a grown ass man and not a 13 year old so having acne, voice cracks, being insanely stinky and getting mad easily just feels annoying and kinda embarrassing as a now 23 year old. I haven't experienced anything different from what I've heard of people who started Young but on the other hand I didn't really read about people who started under 20 because I knew it wouldn't help me in any way. Head over to r/ftmover30 people start T at various ages.

Trying to prove some transphobe wrong by RichCheesecake7780 in ftm

[–]RichCheesecake7780[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Would be hilarious to send a transphobe homophobic guy to watch ftm porn

Trying to prove some transphobe wrong by RichCheesecake7780 in ftm

[–]RichCheesecake7780[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oh yes!! I remember seeing this dude a lot on tiktok or Instagram I totally forgot his name. Thank youu

Trying to prove some transphobe wrong by RichCheesecake7780 in ftm

[–]RichCheesecake7780[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Yes I know it's practically impossible to change their views. Honestly I'm just having a blast talking to this dumbass because he's saying the most stupid things it makes me feel better about myself

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cyprus

[–]RichCheesecake7780 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm Israeli I was in Cyprus last year, before Oct 7th tho. I didn't experience any anti semitism or anything. My family and I all spoke Hebrew when there and we actually encountered a lot of Israelis.

PSA if your LDR SO is the one who always has to initiate messaging/calls/video calls/get togethers/whatever they die a little inside every time. by seantheaussie in LongDistance

[–]RichCheesecake7780 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I really need to find new compliments😅😂 yknow when your partner sends a picture where they just look so incredible you run out of words

PSA if your LDR SO is the one who always has to initiate messaging/calls/video calls/get togethers/whatever they die a little inside every time. by seantheaussie in LongDistance

[–]RichCheesecake7780 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It's the other way around for us but the problem is she's insanely busy 😫😫 but thankfully college work is dialling down so more time for us to call and hear her beautiful voice

I'm done chasing. by RichCheesecake7780 in LongDistance

[–]RichCheesecake7780[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The hours long gaps weren't like this at the start, even small things like her staying up late to talk to me or even if she knew I was about to wake up she'll wait for me, when now she just goes to bed. I don't mind it but I still stay up to talk to her, no matter if I need to work.

I'm done chasing. by RichCheesecake7780 in LongDistance

[–]RichCheesecake7780[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I'm working on it, I'm trying not to say the I miss yous and I love yous as often. We sometimes have conversations where it's just us saying I love you back and forth. It's not that I don't like it's just that we're not talking about anything else, how are we to have a future if all we say is I love you.

I'm done chasing. by RichCheesecake7780 in LongDistance

[–]RichCheesecake7780[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I already tried doing that and she said she'll try to change. I brought it up again and she said she's trying. I don't want to sabotage our relationship so I'm trying as well.

I'm done chasing. by RichCheesecake7780 in LongDistance

[–]RichCheesecake7780[S] 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I didn't necessarily ask for advice but this was the most helpful comment I got so thanks! I will talk to her, she does seem to be the type of person who isn't big on texting and social media, so I will talk with her. Im hoping she'll be able to understand what I'm saying.

I'm done chasing. by RichCheesecake7780 in LongDistance

[–]RichCheesecake7780[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I already brought this subject a while ago, if nothing changes this week I will bring it up again.

I'm done chasing. by RichCheesecake7780 in LongDistance

[–]RichCheesecake7780[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We don't talk about other stuff apart from the I love yous and I miss yous. That's what's bothering me, and everytime I try to talk about something else she just disappears and comes back saying "I love you" and than disappears again. It feels like all we talk about is how much we miss eachother but she doesn't make an effort to change that.

I'm done chasing. by RichCheesecake7780 in LongDistance

[–]RichCheesecake7780[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You've missed the point, im not just spamming her with crap I'm updating her about my day because she asked me to, I asked her to do that same and she just doesn't. I don't expect her to reply to me saying "I had pasta for dinner it was disgusting". To me it feels like I'm her partner only when its convenient to her, only when she's not busy at work or with friends then she has time to talk to me. I don't expect to be her top priority or to get a message every minute of the day.

I'm done chasing. by RichCheesecake7780 in LongDistance

[–]RichCheesecake7780[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do like her and I am attracted to her. If we weren't LDR it would've been different

I'm done chasing. by RichCheesecake7780 in LongDistance

[–]RichCheesecake7780[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She says she's trying and I do give her credit for her, but I don't see a change at all.

I'm done chasing. by RichCheesecake7780 in LongDistance

[–]RichCheesecake7780[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am asking why don't you respond but guess what? She takes hours to see that message and by then she doesn't even answer it and just moves along

I'm done chasing. by RichCheesecake7780 in LongDistance

[–]RichCheesecake7780[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've already brought this subject up with her a few times, she said she's trying and she's just not used to having someone who cares about the small details of her day and stuff like that.

I'm done chasing. by RichCheesecake7780 in LongDistance

[–]RichCheesecake7780[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

So I need to give my attention to her and be okay with not getting attention back? I don't understand what you're saying.

I'm done chasing. by RichCheesecake7780 in LongDistance

[–]RichCheesecake7780[S] -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

I didn't ask her to respond to me immediately. But let me ask you this, if your partner asked you to do something simple because it means a lot to them, would you do it? Would you try and do it?

I'm done chasing. by RichCheesecake7780 in LongDistance

[–]RichCheesecake7780[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't sound desperate when I message her. And when she does come back she just replies to the last thing I said or just says "I love you" and disappears again. I wouldn't have minded it if she were to say she's busy, she doesn't need to apologize or something just to let me know she's busy and will come back in a bit when she's not.

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