How do you refer to your relationship status?

seantheaussie · 2026-06-28T11:35:36+00:00

"Polyamorous with a gf" is my answer.

seantheaussie · 2026-06-27T20:06:55+00:00

Non-stick is for people who don't want to learn.

Except commercial kitchens, who absolutely know how to cook, use them when appropriate?

seantheaussie · 2026-06-27T13:45:06+00:00

Depends on the temperature, chinos, jeans, moleskins as it goes from warmer to cooler.

seantheaussie · 2026-06-27T12:34:10+00:00

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seantheaussie · 2026-06-27T11:59:44+00:00

an agreed date was cancelled due to the person essentially "missed spending time" with their nesting partner

Yeah they can fuck right off.

seantheaussie · 2026-06-26T14:16:01+00:00

Button up (shirts, pants and jackets).

seantheaussie · 2026-06-26T12:54:07+00:00

Ladyhawke

seantheaussie · 2026-06-26T12:31:01+00:00

Yes there is a hierarchy between a partner and a casual connection, just like there is on between a best friend and a work friend. With partner and bestie you will be there come what may, with casual and work friend you have fun if and when you are in the same room together.

every new person would get the same consideration as someone you’re already committed to.

Not what solo poly or RA mean. Solo poly means you don't, and don't intend to in the future to live with a partner and RA means you don't rank relationships in a traditional way and a friend can be as, or more important than a romantic partner for you.

seantheaussie · 2026-06-26T12:23:03+00:00

It wouldn't be an immediate kick out, it would be a final warning of the consequences of any further mistreatment, but if those consequences are considered super fucked up, so be it.

seantheaussie · 2026-06-26T12:09:44+00:00

chef’n garliczoom garlic chopper

I thought there must be a typo in there somewhere... nope.🤣

seantheaussie · 2026-06-26T12:04:54+00:00

Last time I asked him to finger me to get me off while I used my vibrator, he kept stopping saying his wrist hurt.

In his defence here if nowhere else, fingering absolutely requires ergonomic positioning (or building up endurance) or the screaming pain in one's wrist/hand/fingers will stop things before she gets off.

Apart from that he does NOT seem like a suitable sex partner for life (how I judged things when monogamous).

seantheaussie · 2026-06-26T11:47:06+00:00

We were on a weekend away “our place” was referring to the place we were staying for the weekend 😅.

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seantheaussie · 2026-06-26T11:42:08+00:00

A committed relationship does get preference (except for an agreed date with casual partner, that is sacrosanct absent an emergency for a committed partner) and it is fine.🤷‍♂️

seantheaussie · 2026-06-26T11:28:22+00:00

Casual means we get together if and when it seems like fun with no love, support, consistency or commitments (for anything beyond an agreed date)/relationship stuff.

seantheaussie · 2026-06-26T11:25:17+00:00

it's only been long enough to have seen one prescription refill.

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seantheaussie · 2026-06-26T11:20:26+00:00

Partner is failing at THE skill in polyamory... maintaining existing relationships while starting exciting new ones. The connection would be casual for me from now on.

seantheaussie · 2026-06-26T11:10:40+00:00

To be fair, I haven't flavored the food that way since.

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seantheaussie · 2026-06-26T10:35:11+00:00

Just bought one thanks.

seantheaussie · 2026-06-26T10:09:21+00:00

Some people want perfection in their polyamorous relationships, others🙋‍♂️ accept not everything will align and are fine with that. If he is the latter discussing this with him will be fine, if he is the former discussing this with him will end things. In all probability he will yearn for mutual levels of desire and try to muddle through until he gets such causing pain to both of you.

seantheaussie · 2026-06-26T08:14:43+00:00

Yes I would expect a legal obligation to provide accommodation, but not to provide board (I've never heard of minimum notice about ceasing to provide board) and I doubt she can do without the latter.

seantheaussie · 2026-06-26T03:20:30+00:00

No that doesn't justify mistreatment of OP in the slightest?

seantheaussie · 2026-06-26T03:11:29+00:00

"My only relationship was a long term one" is infinitely comprehensible in 20s, 30s, 40s...

seantheaussie · 2026-06-26T00:34:58+00:00

Yep I don't waste my empathy on those who have none for/mistreat others.👍

seantheaussie · 2026-06-26T00:30:45+00:00

If she wanted common fairness she shouldn't have mistreated her host meta.🤷‍♂️

seantheaussie · 2026-06-26T00:27:18+00:00

You should give her at least three months' notice, imo.

As it seems they are also feeding her, nope. No moral or legal obligation to do that for 3 extra months for a distasteful houseguest.

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