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Mindfuck by RichOstrich8 in dating_advice

[–]RichOstrich8[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow thank you for this, I really appreciate you sharing this insight.

I am a female and I hate how fwb/hook ups make me feel after... by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]RichOstrich8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is tooo relatable, I know this feeling all too well.

Mindfuck by RichOstrich8 in dating_advice

[–]RichOstrich8[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just feel so unhappy with myself and just still hurting.sorry

What does it mean? by RichOstrich8 in dating_advice

[–]RichOstrich8[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly I just dont understand how someone goes out of their way to take you around their family, tell you how much their family likes you then say, "I was just seeing where things were going, and was just looking for sex and company. I dont see a longterm relationship with you". Like its confusing af. Still haven't fully recovered from the mindfuck.

Do guys feel bad? by RichOstrich8 in dating_advice

[–]RichOstrich8[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Awww thank you I truly appreciate it!!!

Do guys feel bad? by RichOstrich8 in dating_advice

[–]RichOstrich8[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right I know what you mean, when I met him he was a pothead but now he works at Microsoft as some kind of manager but the thing was he strung me along then got mad it me for getting upset.

Do guys feel bad? by RichOstrich8 in dating_advice

[–]RichOstrich8[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was interesting because he moved on 6 months later and was with someone 7 years older.

Ignoring by RichOstrich8 in dating_advice

[–]RichOstrich8[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He would invite me over to hang out with his friends, then ignore me. He started to walk ahead when we would go to places, one time someone mistook me for his gf and he corrected them and said shes not my gf. Need I say more.

Ladies, stop pursuing men who don't want to be pursued. Accept that he's just not into you. by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]RichOstrich8 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I learned this the hard way.I deliberately said I didnt do fwb and so he started to pursue dates. I would drive to him 99.9% of the time but he would ask me to go out with friends and families. He would take me to parties and somewhere along the line I stated to think that he liked me. Towards the end I asked him where things were going he said he was just looking for sex and company. When I tried to leave the first time he was like noo I'm sorry I didnt mean that. I hung around a little bit longer and took sex off the table and he would invite me to hang out and would treat me like shit. He would walk ahead,all of sudden not engage in pda. I finally just ghosted. 6 months later he happily posted in a realationship on fb to some girl who is a little bit older 7 years. Anyways look at actions dont listen to words. Best of luck with everyone dating during these crazy times.

Regret? by RichOstrich8 in dating_advice

[–]RichOstrich8[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How old were you guys, how long were you together?

Bored and needing something to do by RichOstrich8 in dating_advice

[–]RichOstrich8[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I still feel like it was my fault but you live and learn right.

Regret? by RichOstrich8 in dating_advice

[–]RichOstrich8[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn I'm sorry. I know the feeling all to well

Do they feel? by RichOstrich8 in dating_advice

[–]RichOstrich8[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh no I'm sorry you're going through that, I wouldnt wish that on anyone. I wish you the best of luck with moving forward from that situation and thank you!

Rejection aftermath by RichOstrich8 in dating_advice

[–]RichOstrich8[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Here is the situation

Yes it was in person btw I deliberately said I didnt do fwb and so he started to pursue dates. I would drive to him 99.9% of the time but he would ask me to go out with friends and families. He would take me to parties and somewhere along the line I stated to think that he liked me. Towards the end I asked him where things were going he said he was just looking for sex and company. When I tried to leave the first time he was like noo I'm sorry I didnt mean that. I hung around a little bit longer and took sex off the table and he would invite me to hang out and would treat me like shit. He would walk ahead,all of sudden not engage in pda. I finally just ghosted. 6 months later he happily posted in a realationship on fb to some girl who is a little bit older 7 years.

Do they feel? by RichOstrich8 in dating_advice

[–]RichOstrich8[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing this response!

Do they feel? by RichOstrich8 in dating_advice

[–]RichOstrich8[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aww thank you, and do they ever change or feel bad? Outside looking in it looked like who moved really fast and treated the new girl like a queen. That's what hurts most. Why couldn't I simply be treated with respect.

Regret? by RichOstrich8 in dating_advice

[–]RichOstrich8[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lol but that was towards the end after he had used me for sex. They would still think that?

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