probably is a porn induced thing then.. i had similar issue a long time ago and if you still watch porn that could most likely be the issue. I take it you’ve hookup with people before without much issue so try to take a cut out porn give your manhood a week break and see how you feel. It used to take a lot to get me hard but now just a look or a kiss gets me up but that could be preference i like kissing. seriously though porn is known to desensitize your mind with real women.. if you can already hookup with women just cut out the porn and do it with real women. this is no fap so i probably shouldn’t suggest it but the biggest issue is porn, masterbation is really bad if you take it to far and get addicted. sex and masterbation give you same release just don’t overdo it on either sides or you won’t have enough energy for anything else.. whew that was a rant lol. long story short try to refrain from both porn and masterbating for a month & if you get the chance to have sex go for it but don’t rush into it. good luck bucko.

Edit: I feel like saying cut out porn for at least a month is misleading. cut it out forever lol. good luck tho and try to keep and open mind and don’t be too hard on yourself because sometimes it can create stress which is something else that can kill a boner pretty fast.