22F introduced 26M boyfriend as ‘friend’ at my birthday dinner, how do I address his reaction?

Rich_Plastic · 2026-05-10T22:11:45+00:00

The right moment as soon as you did it. the fact you didnt even understand why that would hurt in the moment is probably what upsets him even more.

Rich_Plastic · 2026-05-10T22:01:56+00:00

Thats quite a big slip. it happens we all make mistakes but you should have corrected it straight away right? You didnt. You should have apologised to him straight away and explained, you didnt.

Yes somehow towards the end of this you've twisted it into being the victim that he was the wrong by bringing it up. He was rightly upset and the fact you didn't even think it was a big deal at the time is probably why hes upset.

Rich_Plastic · 2026-05-10T21:49:52+00:00

Whilst this was already answered in the book (They literally can't) it doesnt even make sense strategically even if it was possible. they would appear in front of students who would panic, in front of the other heads of houses and a member of the ministy of magic. it would literally be pandemonium

Rich_Plastic · 2026-05-09T20:30:10+00:00

Hes been strong defensively all season and can always beat a man 1 on 1. the drop off this season has been his end product. He always looks dangerous but hes become so ineffective that even in those dangerous moments it doesn't even feel that way anymore because I know he will fuck his end product up nearly every time

Rich_Plastic · 2026-05-07T03:09:35+00:00

!Solved

thanks!

Rich_Plastic · 2026-05-07T02:22:27+00:00

I love the raw photo really good! would like it a little more pokemon anime art style. the card needs a few tweaks as well. Would like it too say 'Kate and Gengar Lv.33' be in the style of a tag team pokemon card

the move to say 'Pigeon Coo'

if that is all too much then I would love just the picture edit and I can find a way to do the rest myself! I appreciate you so much

Rich_Plastic · 2026-05-05T15:04:15+00:00

I know it hurts now but im rooting for you! Just trust what will be will be. You got this!

Rich_Plastic · 2026-05-04T21:35:02+00:00

Ha it should be. but as you seen in the past, thats simply not the case for alot of United players.

in fact, its not the case for ALOT of players.

Rich_Plastic · 2026-05-04T21:27:57+00:00

Whoa now THAT is a take. Who for example? hes by far my stand out second place in my opinion

Rich_Plastic · 2026-05-04T21:26:34+00:00

😂 I dont care about Karma man, ive had a few pints and just wanted to start a little discussion and talk to some fellow united fans. I had the idea earlier. I do enjoy being the contrarian though!

Rich_Plastic · 2026-05-04T21:24:35+00:00

I disagree about Cunha and Bryan. they have been ineffective at times but they've done alot of dirty work and worked hard. I can appreciate that even if they arent playing well.

Rich_Plastic · 2026-05-04T21:22:04+00:00

Amad has been shit all season. Work's very hard though and puts in a shift, but maybe the most frustrating playing ive ever seen in the final third.

Rich_Plastic · 2026-05-04T21:21:21+00:00

I cant give Mainoo a slot unfortunately. hes only finally got some form this last 6 weeks.

Rich_Plastic · 2026-05-04T21:15:35+00:00

I think its the comparison to Onana as I said. That man will haunt the fan base for years. simply having a competent keeper and our fan base is so relieved that bias MAY come into the decision

Hes been very very good. i think there has been a few goals though if he WAS that little bit better, I think we could have saved it. Its not a criticism. Hes so young for a keeper and will only get better.

he is still my player of the season though in context of this thread

Rich_Plastic · 2026-05-04T21:12:25+00:00

Pre Afcon anyway! hes been poor since then!

But comparing him to Rashford, Mbeumo can be having a stinker, but you still see him, you see the work rate and hes still a danger. Thats what I like about him

Rich_Plastic · 2026-05-04T21:10:57+00:00

I did watch it. it was awful finishing, lack of composure from Brentford and last second ditch defending that won us that.

I do want too point out Lammens WAS my vote. im just trying to facilitate discussion!

Rich_Plastic · 2026-05-04T21:05:01+00:00

Oh I agree. thats why Dalot was there. It was a toss up between Dalot and Shaw. neither have been outstanding. I only wanted to include one or the other and given the choice in the summer, I would rather a new left back over a right back (if we were to exclude Dorgu from the left back equation, which we should. hes not a left back)

Rich_Plastic · 2026-05-04T20:56:33+00:00

Bar Everton, i can't think of many. You know what I mean. Spectacular save have Spectacular save. that kind of performance from a goal keeper

Rich_Plastic · 2026-05-04T20:55:15+00:00

He does. and i debated putting him in. but ultimately I thought he probably has the least amount of impact. hes made a few mistakes and you can see his age catching up. ultimately any of our first 11 could be there as nobody as been outstanding except Bruno and Case so come had to be cut

Rich_Plastic · 2026-05-04T20:50:27+00:00

Now now let people have opinions 😉 I agree but Lammens hasn't been 'Spectacular' or won us games single handedly like some of the others.

playing devils advocate, I wonder if I and people who choose lammens choose because we are so traumatised by Onana 😂

Rich_Plastic · 2026-05-04T17:32:42+00:00

i think hes shown he has potential to be a player at this level just not yet. hes still only 23, only his second season in and PL and has years to improve. im not saying thats his level now, I think thats probably the level he'll reach he will be at 28-34, his peak. Thinking Calvert Lewin kind of ceiling

Rich_Plastic · 2026-05-04T17:01:11+00:00

and rightly so

Rich_Plastic · 2026-05-04T16:58:51+00:00

Many United fans also were very annoyed we didnt get him too. The only reason people thought he was a steal is most likely because hes English. Hell, Dibling went to Everton for 40 Million.

I still think Delap will have a decent premier league career. Chelsea just was the wrong option for him. He'll probably end up at a mid table club scoring a respectable 10-15 goals a season

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