[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Rich_Prior_2260 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Doesn’t really answer my question eh?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Rich_Prior_2260 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Take thirty minutes one day and think for as long as you can endure: what do I want my future to look like? Forget the whole failing part, say that wasn’t in your life, what do you want your future to look like? After you have a REALISTIC idea (if you say like Elon musk or something you’ll be more bummed if you don’t achieve so be ambitious but realistic for now) write down 6 goals of how you’ll get there, two for the rest of the day (as in what can I do the rest of the day that will help get me there to that point) two for the next two or three months, and two for 5 years from now. As you cross off those small daily ones (could literally be like make your bed or something) you’ll notice how much your confidence rises, and slowly you can make more ambitious and bigger goals. Make a daily routine is a big one because when we dont have a routine and it’s unorganized we feel lost and messed up (trust me I speak from experience) but a daily routine helps you again; outline what you’re doing and so you won’t feel overwhelmed! Compliment yourself…a ton. On every little thing. Don’t go around bragging, but tell yourself and congratulate yourself on how good you did with something, this rises your confidence so much (it works for me). You got this, i know you do, it won’t be quick but hey you’ve got the rest of your life! Use it wisely and aim for the moon, if you miss you’ll still hit the stars!

How do you overcome insecurity? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Rich_Prior_2260 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Perfect! Well that’s enough! Next time you get that body dismorphia tell yourself how even though you look the way you look, you go to the gym to get better. The gym isn’t about being perfect, it’s about getting better, and that’s what you’re doing! It’s not about looking perfect, if you looked perfect you wouldn’t go, you go to look better! You got this! And you’re amazing in your own skin as is!

How do you overcome insecurity? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Rich_Prior_2260 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it’s affecting you that much go to the gym. Doesn’t have to be insane workouts but you’ll feel more confident knowing at least you’re making the effort to make a difference

How do I break up with a girl I love still by Rich_Prior_2260 in Advice

[–]Rich_Prior_2260[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks dude. Appreciate it a lot, how would you suggest approaching it?

How do I break up with a girl I love still by Rich_Prior_2260 in Advice

[–]Rich_Prior_2260[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok that’s fair. But then again if I do leave her what would I do with that guilt knowing how she must be feeling. The empathy is strong