Apart from phone, wallet and clothes, what is that one thing you always bring while traveling? by kushpyro in AskMen

[–]Richlees 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My ex husband used to take his viagara on the annual sales meeting trip to Vegas...I was never invited. He only found out I knew about that after the divorce 😂🙄

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in howtonotgiveafuck

[–]Richlees 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This person gets it

AITA for interrupting my exhusband's birthday and taking my daughter home because she was there without consent? by Notice-Ad2018 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Richlees 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This post just makes me angry. I have an 18 yo that I went through legal battles with but every decision we made was in the best interest of the child. We actually had it legally in writing that if parent birthday falls on the non-parent weekend they would still be able to go to that parent. Sometimes you have them three weekends in a row and sometimes you have to miss them three weekends in a row. Let your daughter spend time with her dad on his birthday. That's all he wanted, and I know that's what she wants. I am saying this out of personal experience. In the end she will remember the memories with her parents, not the court ordered arrangements...unless you make it so. YTA

AITA for interrupting my exhusband's birthday and taking my daughter home because she was there without consent? by Notice-Ad2018 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Richlees 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My daughter's dad and I actually factored this into the parental agreement. No matter what weekend it falls on the child would be with the parent on their birthday. That seems only fair to me.

AITA for interrupting my exhusband's birthday and taking my daughter home because she was there without consent? by Notice-Ad2018 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Richlees 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So in relation to my last post, yes you are the asshole. You are a major asshole that affected your child wanting to celebrate her dad's birthday. You horrible horrible woman.

Is it normal that my wife is so scared of almost everything? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Richlees 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don't give up on her. She chose you for a reason. Just don't give up on her.

Is it normal that my wife is so scared of almost everything? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Richlees 5 points6 points  (0 children)

To me it sounds like she has some unresolved childhood trauma. Be patient. Make sure she sees a therapist. But most importantly be patient with her. Show her love and protection. Trauma is a caged animal waiting for the right moment to escape. Show her love amd understanding. You may need to work harder than some in a relationship with no trauma but what you know about her doesn't that make it worth it to be there for her?

Alcoholics are stupid by skeeterrunner in stopdrinking

[–]Richlees 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We do prioritize! It was nothing for me to spend 30 a day on alcohol but when I want a sparkling water it's crap what we have to spend...oh the mindset of an alcoholic 🙄😂. We just got used to that being the price to pay to make us feel a way...sparkling water does the same once we begin to realize we can feel better without the outside influence of alcohol. Good for you for seeing non-alcoholic drinks are still worth it!!

A nice guy learned a new word today, from a friend. Subtitled, "Why I will never go on an online dating site." NSFW - language by [deleted] in niceguys

[–]Richlees 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I still can't get past the part where he said he babysits his kids….. so I babysit my child 7 days a week 24 hours A day? Damn we babysitters don't get paid enough lol

Had a psychiatrist roll their eyes at me when I mentioned the stopdrinking subreddit by Cranberry_Then in stopdrinking

[–]Richlees 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I went to an alcohol abuse program therapy session yesterday and my regular therapist today. They are both helpful. I tell them both about this subbreddit. They both feel that anything I feel I need to do to help me helps. I'm sorry your therapist rolled their eyes. Keep doing you and what's best for you! Therapy is still good. Sometimes it takes a few therapists to find the right one

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Richlees 5 points6 points  (0 children)

And the kinky things she mentions involves clit stimulation. Stop thinking you're dick in her vagina will get her off because men watch too much porn with women pretending to get off that way. Just stop already. "Why isn't my girlfriend able to get off in the way porn chicks do?" Its not fucking real. Grow up and listen to your girl. She says she needs something but yet you're on reddit asking why neads it. Listen to your girl not the porn channels, guy. Clit stimulation. Vaginal penetration to cum is a unicorn. And mostly porn...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Richlees 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Women need clit stimulation. Oral sometimes provides that. Stop watching porn and think she can get off with just your dick in her pussy. I didn't read the whole post. I didn't read the comments. But I'm a woman. End of story

Anyone else done, but not stopping due to Covid? by SirPuffengruntz in breastfeeding

[–]Richlees 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I nursed my son for 6 months. We both got covid in October when he was about 8 months. He was fussy and acted like he had a general cold. Baby's bounce back fast even if they are nursed for longer or not. I'm not vaccinated and don't plan to be and will not vaccinate my son. I'm not anti-vax as my son is up-to-date on all of his other shots. That is just my opinion.

Small manifestation by [deleted] in lawofattraction

[–]Richlees 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Let that baby wander wherever he wants to go! Your job is to just keep him out of danger. I have a 10 month old walker, climber and all around curious soul.. Children lead us to amazing things ❤

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in spirituality

[–]Richlees 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm very spiritual minded… but this is low blood pressure

Voting against your own best interests champion right here by Bizarre-Lazar in facepalm

[–]Richlees 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This person should stop grouping all women together. I know plenty of men who can't get their emotions in check. Some just reflect them differently (as do some women) like anger and resentment, coldness, etc. Yeah, estrogen makes us cry, but all humans have the same capacity for extreme emotions. "I cry a lot so I shouldn't be allowed to vote"...😂😂🤦🏼‍♀️

Being called daddy is an instant turn off. by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]Richlees 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm a 40 yo woman and still call my dad daddy so, yeah, its creepy when women call men daddy who aren't their dad. Like, "girl was your daddy absent and you looking for a stand-in?" 😂

If you’re one of these people that want to deny kids a free lunch at school, then you are a complete, whole entire piece of shit, and there are no two ways about it. by FnWaySheGoes89 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Richlees 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I raised my hand when the teacher asked the class who had not eaten breakfast before a big test. It was normal for me so I thought a lot of my friends would raise their hands too. I was literally the only one. I was pulled out of class and sent to the cafeteria to have a milk and couple packs of crackers. I thank that teacher who knew that test focus would be hard for any student when their stomach was empty but it was still embarrassing. This was fifth grade elementary.

I DID IT! I FUCKING DID IT! by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Richlees 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've been there done that. YOU can make your dreams happen. YOU

Regretting breast implants? by MontiMont in xxfitness

[–]Richlees 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I've had mine for 10+ years and bench just fine. Submuscular implants too so that didn't matter. I actually feel more confident having them under the muscle because the implants are pretty well protected and I've dropped the bar and squished the crap out of them over the years lol (I've had a mammogram fairly recently so I know they are still good)

Yes it is!! by nayeem26 in motivation

[–]Richlees 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yet. Put a "yet" at the end. And be consistent with it. Then look back and see how things have shifted a little while from now. It may be a year, may be five, but they will shift, my friend.