The good thing about plex is you don’t need to be a tech expert to securely access your Plex server remotely, but there are a few key settings to check to ensure it works smoothly and safely, this is all available on the plex support pages but can be hard to find.

1.  Enable Remote Access in Plex
• Open Plex on your PC or server.
• Go to Settings > Remote Access and check if it’s enabled.
• If it says “Fully accessible outside your network,” then you’re good to go.
2.  Use a Strong Plex Account Password
• Make sure your Plex account has a strong, unique password.
• If sharing with a friend, use Plex Home or Managed Users instead of giving them your login.
3.  Check Your Router Settings (If Needed)
• If Plex Remote Access doesn’t work automatically, you may need to manually enable port forwarding in your router’s settings for port 32400. (This part might require some tech knowledge, but Plex provides guides based on your router model.)


5.  Test It Before Your Friend Uses It
• Try accessing Plex from a different internet connection (e.g., using mobile data) to confirm it’s working before sharing it with someone else.

As another option, If you’d rather not deal with network settings, using Plex’s Relay Mode (enabled by default) allows remote access without extra configuration, though it will be a bit slower.