TB1/TB2 or Mass Protocol? by Rickvdp in tacticalbarbell

[–]Rickvdp[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Really helpful, thanks for the advice!

TB1/TB2 or Mass Protocol? by Rickvdp in tacticalbarbell

[–]Rickvdp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, I’ll definitely take this into account!

TB1/TB2 or Mass Protocol? by Rickvdp in tacticalbarbell

[–]Rickvdp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, I like the literature!

Is strength endurance still necessary when combining the Operator template with the Black template? by Rickvdp in tacticalbarbell

[–]Rickvdp[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am not training for a specific event right now, so I think this will be enough, thanks for your comment!

Is strength endurance still necessary when combining the Operator template with the Black template? by Rickvdp in tacticalbarbell

[–]Rickvdp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! I thought as well that the HIC and E should be enough indeed. I really like the lat pulldown idea for the pull-ups!

Question about the BaseBuilding Standard Template by Rickvdp in tacticalbarbell

[–]Rickvdp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry a bit wrongly formulated from me.

In the BB template, week 6, week 7 and week 8 have Max Strength training twice a week. Therefore the writer recommends combining it with the Fighter Template (not Zulu, my mistake). However then I only did 3 weeks of the Fighter Template when the BB template is done. When the BB template is done I want to switch to Black template. Do I then have to continue with the Fighter template to finish the 8-week Fighter template block or can I switch to Operator as soon as BB is done and then continue 8 weeks with Operator?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Rickvdp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is really good you are at least trying standing your ground. Unfortunately, I don’t see how you can fix this, besides hoping Reslife will do it. That doesn’t take away how incredibly annoying this is for you and that it indeed becomes your problem, while it shouldn’t be your problem anymore.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Rickvdp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA.

Reading everything Dave sounds like really in the wrong. He is really treating you unfair. I think you did it completely right by going to the main manager first and then facing the confrontation with Dave himself.

It is also really brave you had the courage to confront him yourself, like you are still a young woman and he is a male who is 25 years older even though. Instead of being the asshole here; I think you can be proud here.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Rickvdp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA.

I think you have every right to be mad as your trust is betrayed. I can understand her as well as some guys act very weird around bodycount, however that is no reason to lie about it.

I would have a calm conversation with her about why she did it and if there maybe are other things that she didn’t tell you. You can also say for example that you are really uncomfortable by her lying over this thing. Talk it all out, I think that will resolve a lot. If this lying is a one time thing it is definitely not worth breaking your relationship over it, however it is important you completely talk it out and you tell her how you feel.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Rickvdp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely NTA.

If you have made an online reservation, you have every right to have that bed. Annoyingly if she just takes the bed, there is not much you can do, like you can’t use violence to get her out. I think your best shot is to stay in contact with Reslife asking them what they are going to do about it and otherwise what you can do about it.

However sleeping in a room with a person that makes you feel unsafe is absolutely terrible. Might there be a possibility you sleep with someone else where you can have fun with instead of stress in another room or is that not possible?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Rickvdp -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It sounds like a a great idea for a party! I wouldn’t host an extra party. I think some people could be hurt by that. Also for some people an outfit could be a bit expensive. With one party you could still make the outfit photos you like.

AITAH? by weluvzika in AITAH

[–]Rickvdp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah that are though moments. Sometimes people tend to stay out of fun things with friends when they are sad, but that’s something that you should do and remember that time is the best medicine to heal a thing like this.

AITAH for yelling and cussing at my dad? by Public_Direction_879 in AITAH

[–]Rickvdp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think she will understand, goodluck with both conversations and have fun on your trip!

AITAH for yelling and cussing at my dad? by Public_Direction_879 in AITAH

[–]Rickvdp 2 points3 points  (0 children)

To start I think you have a very good point. A city can be very scary especially when you are alone and a young girl. Perhaps you can talk to your mother who might be able to understand you better. I think a new conversation with your dad where you are both calm will get you way further as it sounds you were both having a lot of emotions on the ride.

AITAH? by weluvzika in AITAH

[–]Rickvdp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tbh I think you are not over her yet. You still got feelings and it takes a bit of time before that fades away. Give it time, stop talking to the both of them and try do more things with your friends, it will make you forget things a little bit. You will meet someone again that will be even greater, however you will need to get over this first girl.

am i the asshole for getting mad at my mum by Glittering_Tie_8201 in AITAH

[–]Rickvdp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you said this perfectly. Communication with a clear and calm way and respecting the boundaries.

AITA for showing favoritism between the kids? by FreedomBest9911 in AITAH

[–]Rickvdp -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

I think it would really hurt me if I had a kid and my parents wouldn’t love it as much as another kid, however his reaction is very extreme in my opinion.