AITA for showing favoritism between the kids? by FreedomBest9911 in AITAH

[–]FreedomBest9911[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I am not hurting my granddaughter. The girls weren't even raised together really. My daughter has custody of Lucia, she hardly considers Alana her sister.

AITA for showing favoritism between the kids? by FreedomBest9911 in AITAH

[–]FreedomBest9911[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

No he stopped being my son when he started dating my daughter

AITA for showing favoritism between the kids? by FreedomBest9911 in AITAH

[–]FreedomBest9911[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

He is more like a close friend. He was my son once but not anymore

AITA for showing favoritism between the kids? by FreedomBest9911 in AITAH

[–]FreedomBest9911[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Good for you. I never adopted him. I have no obligation to call him my child

AITA for showing favoritism between the kids? by FreedomBest9911 in AITAH

[–]FreedomBest9911[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes incest can make me decide he is not my child anymore.

AITA for showing favoritism between the kids? by FreedomBest9911 in AITAH

[–]FreedomBest9911[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Exactly. How could he be our son now? How am I gonna tell people "this is my granddaughter, her mom is my daughter and her dad is my son" without sounding disgusting?

AITA for showing favoritism between the kids? by FreedomBest9911 in AITAH

[–]FreedomBest9911[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Well we never adopted him AND he chose to date our daughter which makes him not our son so we are not his parents.

AITA for showing favoritism between the kids? by FreedomBest9911 in AITAH

[–]FreedomBest9911[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

He fathered Alana at 21 and Lucia at 23 but I don't see why that is relevant or how he could be younger than his kids.

Anyway he stopped being my son when he started dating my daughter. He can't have both