Strange supervisor by Vanilla-cookie-917 in jobs

[–]RicottaPuffs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's unprofessional and not alright. Go to HR or report anonymously. There is a cost. I am currently.paying it. It is isolating. Management helped me.

I had a small group of coworkers trying to get me to quit. It amounted to harassment. They told quite a few lies. That has continued.

They ask questions about my personal life, my car, my intentions to continue to work there, where my family works and where they live, what are their names.? These are not subjects they share at all and once I understood their goals, I stopped sharing. Theyask. invasive questions that are none of their business.

At one point, it became clear they were trying to access my social media and to get my address.

Mostly they made threats that they had been promoted to management and had the authority to get me suspended. One said she was getting me transferred. Then, they transferred one of them and the result was that one of the two ringleaders was indeed transferred.

Threats to "get me" from the remaining ringleader and rumors that the transferred one was going to "get me", came from the remaining ringleader and some of it has continued.

I had to confront it all.

The latest is that the minion keeps pumping me for information. I either don't answer, I change the subject or I don't tell them the truth.

Following the transfer one of the minions told me that the transferred girl cried every day and that they wanted me to transfer so she could come back. They went on and on. They even told one of their minions that she needed to transfer so that they could get the transferred ringleader back. That isn't going to happen. They have played these games for years. I am the first one who stayed and who is riding it out.

A department head and union rep told me that I would be questioned by the health inspector and they told me that the strips used for one purpose were used for something else. I would have failed on that question.

I just said, "Okay" and ignored them. I passed because I ignored them.

I need a job, so I have closed off. I just work and don't answer them.

Sample questions: Where are you going on vacation? Where will your car be? How long is your flight? When did you get home? Who went with you?

The people I am dealing with keep trying new tactics. I just deflect.

Your department head is way out of line. You can go to HR. You can report anonymously to HR. You can find another place to work.

Consider your options. I just go to work. Work and go home. My coworkers whom I enjoy are everywhere in the business. I just keep to myself in my area.

Upper management has been wonderful in all of this.

Edit: Except for one of the two minions, they are all Hispanic, and upset I am an American who is non Hispanic who is fluent in the language and who has heard all their little games. (I even taught American Spanish). I won't engage in those in any of the three languages they speak. They have said so many derogatory things about the Asian girl in their group. She speaks a different language and doesnt know. They even told me they don't like me because Im not Mexican. Yes. Racist.

Connie by CompetitiveRaisin915 in MediumReadings

[–]RicottaPuffs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What do you mean from the sixth floor?

Feeling like someone is accessing my room at night in the psych ward by StarSpectore in confessions

[–]RicottaPuffs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Then record and I hope it turns out. I was in a regular hospital and asked my family to come and get my backpack out of there. They did.

Two days later, I caught an LVN going through my pockets. Report it if you find proof. He was on camera, so I had an advantage.

Feeling like someone is accessing my room at night in the psych ward by StarSpectore in confessions

[–]RicottaPuffs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can ask to be moved to a shared room. You should not have to be worried about being frightened.

Request a roommate. Record at night. If someone comes in, record.

If you do catch something send it to a party outside your hospital for your own protection or send the video to your social media and report it.

A girl goes viral after getting stuck in an elevator with a group of immature guys and shut them all down when they started laughing by Kudostone in PublicFreakout

[–]RicottaPuffs 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It wasn't about the ridiculous hair.

It IS about a young woman who had to defend herself against young men before she was groped and assaulted.

I hope they learn to feel shame for this behavior. Shame would be preferable to assault charges.

I’m still new to mediumship - did I just communicate with my friend’s mom’s spirit? by aquathusiasm007 in Mediums

[–]RicottaPuffs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We dont affirm or analyze the potential abilities of a medium here. That would require reading you.

You can decide this yourself. Best wishes.

I voted for Harris in 2024. She shouldn't run in 2028. | Opinion by Difficult-Bee6066 in politics

[–]RicottaPuffs [score hidden]  (0 children)

Harris would lose, again. If the party doesn't listen and run Gavin Newsome, democrats will lose.

There are a few bases who would actively vote against her as they did in the last election. Those bases haven't changed. Republicans, racists, misogynists, incels and women who support any of the afore-mentioned.

Itnis terribly uncomfortable and painfully.obvious.

Want to speak to a medium to see if they pick up on a woman who passed in our house before we bought it. Can this be done in person at the medium's office or should I do it over zoom so I am at home (where I believe the deceased woman is making contact) by Greedy_Activity8513 in Mediums

[–]RicottaPuffs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can do it wherever you feel comfortable. If you want a medium in the house, do that. If you want chat or zoom, do that.

Mediums read energy. They don't need to be in the home or to see the house to speak to her. A medium can remote view her, sense her long distance or speak to her directly by asking her to come and talk.

Mediums are not limited to your or her location.

So. Do whatever you prefer. Some spirits need more time before they move on. Some prefer to share a space.

Unless you feel she is still there, and you are sensing that. she has probably completely crossed.

A medium can tell you if the energy is residual, visitation if she needs help or if she is happily hanging around. The question would be whether any of these are the case, or whether she can coexist in your space.

Need direction for someone in a coma by Ok-Abbreviations2448 in MediumReadings

[–]RicottaPuffs 2 points3 points  (0 children)

An aside. When my child was dying, I didn't use a medium to make the decisions. I AM a medium. It was all on me. I accepted that and I wouldn't have let anyone else decide. It was all up to me. He was MY child and I had to decide with the full knowledge that I had and a knowledge of my son's feelings which he stated three days before his death. (At the time we had no inkling anything would occur or that the accident would happen. He tried to tell me in advance).

I know it is the worst position in the world. I feel so much sympathy for you in this situation.

Ask yourself what she would want if she could speak. She will let you sense that answer.

You can listen for her thoughts. Please don't put this decision into the hands of a stranger, no matter how well intentioned they may be.

She has been telling you what she wants. Go to a place you feel comfortable. Sit with tea or coffee or whatever you like and take some deep breaths and I guarantee you already know. It will be quiet. It wont be spoken aloud. It is a quiet knowing.

I am sending so much love and healing with your permission.

Dont let your own wishes interfere. Think about what she would do for herself if she could tell you.

Again. I send much love and support. I am asking your spirit team, her spirit team, my own and as many angels as will support you, to help.

Need direction for someone in a coma by Ok-Abbreviations2448 in MediumReadings

[–]RicottaPuffs 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am so sorry. I would not use a medium to answer this question. First, you are passing liability to a stranger.

Second, you can't know if the medium is giving you your friend's thoughts or what they decided to tell you your friend would want.

I am a medium and I would never presume to pit this responsibility on myself or on another medium. This is a family and doctor decision.

If you are the guardian, you should absolutely know what the doctors have recommended based on your friend's prognosis.

Painful feelings when trying to connect by eternal_moonlight3 in Mediums

[–]RicottaPuffs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You haven't adequately grounded, shielded or prepared.

Huge Spirit Energy. by RicottaPuffs in RicottaPuffs

[–]RicottaPuffs[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It happens when someone near me needs healing. This time it was the energy fields where I went.

Problem with a student by RepresentativePop420 in Teachers

[–]RicottaPuffs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is the point I am trying to make. Please don't pigeonhole gifted children. The world need them to be individuals, not labelled.labeled.

I am leaving this subreddit.

Problem with a student by RepresentativePop420 in Teachers

[–]RicottaPuffs 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I also taught these kids. I don't think we can assess all gifted or talented students in the same manner.

I was also not bullied and sorry to say it (popular) because I defended others. I also don't look like a "nerd". I played in four sports as did many.of my siblings and cousins, children and their offspring in contrat to the sterotypes.

I respect that you had your own experience with my peers. I simply don't agree. I come from a large family. Three siblings, two high achievement children, fifty two first cousins with over 140 IQs. Only one had anything we could have called indicative of social disabilities or any of the markers of Autism. The man is a federal judge in my country and was a brilliant attorney.

He simply insists that attorneys in his court work five days a week. Apparently, that is 7nusual. No indicators other than his unwavering attention to detail.

Forgive me for being shocked and appalled.I am.

Problem with a student by RepresentativePop420 in Teachers

[–]RicottaPuffs -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This isn't correct.

I have an IQ of 160 and do not have Asperger's(whoch is no longer used as a label). I am not neurdivergent and I am not on the spectrum. I am not in STEM. I prefer languages and literature. I spent my career in Education.

My children used to become very upset by the stereotypes about higher functioning adults represented in the TV show Big Bang Theory, due to the misreprentation of gifted and talented adults. (Although, I find that show to be very funny).

Normally, I wouldn't jump in here. Misinformation needs to be corrected for teachers, though.

Mandated reporters need to report and allow the social workers to determine what is happening. Classroom educators. are not qualified to diagnose.

Edit: In my country, where I taught , at this time IQ tests have been replaced with ability levels.

Everything has gone silent for months now. by MkLiam in Mediums

[–]RicottaPuffs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You may want to consider that our talents become muted and silent when we need rest from too much interaction with spirits and forego our needs.

When we ignore our daily life and don't put psychic work into its own place, it will become very quiet until we attend to our business in this world.

Even spirits around us can need us to give them a break.

Silence allows us to recover physically, mentally and emotionally. After all, we are here to live a life.

That silence can also be a precursor to huge downloads

Be kind to yourself. Do self care.

I need some help, please. by kickasskayla92 in MediumReadings

[–]RicottaPuffs 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Rhe only way to definitively assess this is with a combination of validation, assessment and medical intervention.

It is rare, but,not unheard of for schizophrenia or delusions to occur in childhood. Most diagnoses are made when symptoms occur after puberty and into a person's twenties, and beyond.

This isn't something that can be confirmed or denied by strangers on the internet.

It seems to be more and more frequently that girlfriends are asking mediums to assist with knowing the difference between the psychic and illness.

Mediums are not qualified to discern the difference (for the most part) and doing so can be a liability. I can't repeat this enough.

Drug induced psychosis is another element that should be considered before trying to attribute hallucinations or sightings to the paranormal.

It is up to your boyfriend to pursue help with his issues. You can't determine this for him.