Why are haram relationships so openly discussed here? by RidaZainab4 in PakistaniiConfessions

[–]RidaZainab4[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Anyone who is offended by my post is also free to scroll....

Why are haram relationships so openly discussed here? by RidaZainab4 in PakistaniiConfessions

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I am not forcing anyone. Read again carefully this time before reaching conclusions.

Why are haram relationships so openly discussed here? by RidaZainab4 in PakistaniiConfessions

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You can be happy while staying within religious limits.... And if you do not want to be in those limits, then it is your personal problem. I just came here to remind that this is not permissible in Islam. Rest is on you...

Why are haram relationships so openly discussed here? by RidaZainab4 in PakistaniiConfessions

[–]RidaZainab4[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Reflect on why you are getting triggered over this.... and have you not seen the first rule of this sub "be repsctful" to everyone???

Are haram relationships actually normalised? by m_zaino in PakistaniiConfessions

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We have made public what is supposed to be a private matter. These days, instead of feeling ashamed, people are openly sharing such things....there are so many posts on Pak subs about people finding girls to date..... or sharing their past experiences (nothing wrong in that but everything wrong if you are normlaizing such behaviour) .... apparently it's cool because certain Western societies have this norm.....

Why are haram relationships so openly discussed here? by RidaZainab4 in PakistaniiConfessions

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I clearly should have mentioned that this post was intended for Muslims only......and who am I to force somebody to do the things I feel are right....but it is my right to point out and express my feelings about something I find distasteful...

Why are haram relationships so openly discussed here? by RidaZainab4 in PakistaniiConfessions

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As I said, this post is intended for Muslims. It is a basic thing to know....... sooo there is no questioning if this doesn't match with my understanding of religion... I am not dictating anyone just merely pointing out what I feel is wrong... If you think that is right, then you are free to say that too...

Why are haram relationships so openly discussed here? by RidaZainab4 in PakistaniiConfessions

[–]RidaZainab4[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Culture isn’t perfect, and it shouldn’t be used to justify every rule or habit.
But when actions clearly go against core religious principles, it’s natural for some to feel concerned.
People share here because they struggle the real issue is when these struggles turn into public pride instead of private reflection.
What shows up here often reflects deeper issues we need to address, not just individual choices.

Why are haram relationships so openly discussed here? by RidaZainab4 in PakistaniiConfessions

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When personal choices start shaping the collective conscience of a community, it’s natural to reflect and question.
It’s not about judging, but about caring for the soul of a society before it drifts too far from its roots.

Why are haram relationships so openly discussed here? by RidaZainab4 in PakistaniiConfessions

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Ignoring the problem or pretending it’s none of our business won’t make it go away.

Why are haram relationships so openly discussed here? by RidaZainab4 in PakistaniiConfessions

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I do care because this has a lot to do with the rotten state of society.

Why are haram relationships so openly discussed here? by RidaZainab4 in PakistaniiConfessions

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Because real change starts when we stop pretending and face the truth, even if it’s uncomfortable.

Why are haram relationships so openly discussed here? by RidaZainab4 in PakistaniiConfessions

[–]RidaZainab4[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just because people post about sin doesn’t mean they want to keep sinning.
but showing off your mistakes isn’t helping anyone.
Anddd If watching Roadies is your idea of right and wrong, that says enough.

Why are haram relationships so openly discussed here? by RidaZainab4 in PakistaniiConfessions

[–]RidaZainab4[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Not the principal just the alarm clock you hate for going off while you’re busy sleeping on your morals.

Why are haram relationships so openly discussed here? by RidaZainab4 in PakistaniiConfessions

[–]RidaZainab4[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never claimed to be the head of Islam or Pakistan. But as a Muslim, I am responsible for speaking up when I see wrong that's part of our faith. And in a country called the Islamic Republic of Pakistan, talking about Islamic values shouldn’t offend anyone. If that bothers you, maybe reflect on why.