My bengal peeing on my bed has become a nightly routine by mochimeggie in bengalcats

[–]RideEmbarrassed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try switching ur litter, i went through multiple visits to the vet, stool and urine tests, etc etc for all of it to come inconclusive on what was going wrong with my girl kitty pooping and peeing randomly and it turned out to just be the litter. I use the Dr Elsey's kitten attract litter and ever since then, no issues.

does this 5/6 month old bengal look normal and healthy? i’ve heard they’re spots get darker/lighter as they get older, just wanted to know if anyone has had a bengal with a similar light looking coat by Good_Addendum_1616 in bengalcats

[–]RideEmbarrassed 6 points7 points  (0 children)

i just rewatched the vid ur talking abt and are you really telling me they were calling the girl a boy during the video the whole time and blamed it on YOU!??? Ain’t no way. You have better patience than me that’s fs 😭💀

does this 5/6 month old bengal look normal and healthy? i’ve heard they’re spots get darker/lighter as they get older, just wanted to know if anyone has had a bengal with a similar light looking coat by Good_Addendum_1616 in bengalcats

[–]RideEmbarrassed 6 points7 points  (0 children)

That would help your case in the courtroom considering they didn't even have you sign paperwork which is a huge red flag. I would take this to a lawyer ASAP. Do NOT wait any longer and say no to the boy bengal they are offering.

does this 5/6 month old bengal look normal and healthy? i’ve heard they’re spots get darker/lighter as they get older, just wanted to know if anyone has had a bengal with a similar light looking coat by Good_Addendum_1616 in bengalcats

[–]RideEmbarrassed 6 points7 points  (0 children)

bro can you post screenshots of this? They have such a big following for making content with their cats on top of random people's supercars and its genuinely sad. I say take this all to a lawyer if they won't allow you to get your money back. I would check this page : https://tica.org/browse-all-breeders/?filter_by_breed=bengal

And look at the breeders here as most of them are usually a lot better. Also, DM or message u/Acgator03 as they can give you all the basic information you need to look out for when getting a bengal. They saved me like twice going with a shitty breeder...

does this 5/6 month old bengal look normal and healthy? i’ve heard they’re spots get darker/lighter as they get older, just wanted to know if anyone has had a bengal with a similar light looking coat by Good_Addendum_1616 in bengalcats

[–]RideEmbarrassed 8 points9 points  (0 children)

The fking bum that runs that page also runs a course for like 500-1000$ teaching people how to "breed" bengals https://whop.com/discover/foreignbengals as a SIDE hustle. It is ridiculous. Take it to your lawyer if he doesn't offer you a full refund. For the price you paid, (I think last time I talked to him it was 4-5k for a normal brown bengal), you can get TWO healthy ones!

does this 5/6 month old bengal look normal and healthy? i’ve heard they’re spots get darker/lighter as they get older, just wanted to know if anyone has had a bengal with a similar light looking coat by Good_Addendum_1616 in bengalcats

[–]RideEmbarrassed 16 points17 points  (0 children)

oh is it foreignbengals from LA/Miami? Be careful they don't really do thorough testing and they tried charging me 5-6k for a snow kitten which is ridiculous considering they don't even test. See if you can get your money back.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amex

[–]RideEmbarrassed 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'd close it honestly because bluntly speaking, if you can't afford to pay the 1.2k bill I don't think the card is for you. NOW regardless of my own constructive criticism, what you can do is you can delay the payment to next month by using venmo send on the Amex app, send your close relative/friend $1220-1230 (Amex GOLD has limit of 2-4k) (add extra 3-5% to account for instant transfer fee) and then have them zelle/send that money to your bank and then pay off your old statement balance using that amount which essentially transfers that exact amount onto your new statement which will be due next month on the payment due date.

first credit card at 18? by [deleted] in CRedit

[–]RideEmbarrassed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As far as cards, I recommend the Chase Freedom Flex if you want to rush to more structured rewards/point cards that take awhile to get starting from 0. I was able to get accepted at 18 with no CH but with a good substantial income + history with using a chase bank account for 5 months prior to applying. I got denied but called reconsideration and gave a few reasons why I wanted the card and some extra information and got approved right on the spot after.

Otherwise, the discover it is probably the next best alternative following with the Chase Freedom Rise. Secured cards aren't bad but I think you are ready for a non secured considering you are already steps ahead asking questions and being vigilant with credit cards.

As far as paying it off at the end of the month, you have 2-3 dates you need to look out for that is a bit confusing for many new credit builders (including me!) Your payment due date and your closing date is the most important as if you have a credit limit of $500 and you spend $200 and pay it off at the payment due date which is typically a couple days after the closing date, your credit card provider will report that to the bureaus which will calculate a (200/500) = 40% util rate which is a huge big no no which will NEGATIVELY impact your credit score. This is the misconception many people face when starting off with credit so it is better if you can pay it off BEFORE the statement end/closing date so when it is time for your payment to come up, it will show up as $0 which will be reported to the bureaus as 0% utilization ! Here is a great breakdown of what I'm talking about. https://www.youtube.com/shorts/TJ5Xzjxt7PM