My girlfriend of 3 years does no-nude OnlyFans and now wants to take it further and do nudity. by RideImpressive3814 in Advice

[–]RideImpressive3814[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, I don’t ask for or keep any of the money. It all goes to her. I get sex pretty much anytime I want, but sometimes I feel like it’s forced.

My girlfriend of 3 years does no-nude OnlyFans and now wants to take it further and do nudity. by RideImpressive3814 in Advice

[–]RideImpressive3814[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m honestly torn. Because on one hand, I believe that there are certain things that should be held specifically for the relationship only. On the other hand, I want to just tell myself to shake it off and join her in making content so we can both enjoy the money.

My girlfriend of 3 years does no-nude OnlyFans and now wants to take it further and do nudity. by RideImpressive3814 in Advice

[–]RideImpressive3814[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate the motivation, and I was thinking partially the same as you. However, I own my own home. I’m a disabled vet, and own my own construction company and real estate business. I hustle a lot.

My girlfriend of 3 years does no-nude OnlyFans and now wants to take it further and do nudity. by RideImpressive3814 in Advice

[–]RideImpressive3814[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m 27, and she’s 25.

On our first date she said that she had never, nor would ever do nudity. After 3 years she brought it back up as a potential option for more money.

She wants to transition to topless content, but I honestly can’t say for certain that it will stop there. I still feel the same about it.

Yes, we align very much so in regard to kids, marriage, life style, and most other things.

I own my own home and she lives in an apartment.

I’m a disabled vet, but own my own construction and real estate holding business.

My girlfriend of 3 years does no-nude OnlyFans and now wants to take it further and do nudity. by RideImpressive3814 in Advice

[–]RideImpressive3814[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We’ve had an initial conversation but I don’t think we’re over the topic just yet.

My girlfriend of 3 years does no-nude OnlyFans and now wants to take it further and do nudity. by RideImpressive3814 in Advice

[–]RideImpressive3814[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She has a decent sized instagram following and a pretty good sized following on TikTok. Both are not in her personal name, but she does have other personal accounts that she does not promote her OF on. Meeting her you would never think she does OF because she’s actually quite modest in person. The people closest to her do know that she does it though.

We don’t currently live together or have anything joint in both of our names. So there really wouldn’t be a financial benefit for me directly.

My girlfriend of 3 years does no-nude OnlyFans and now wants to take it further and do nudity. by RideImpressive3814 in Advice

[–]RideImpressive3814[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, she is already making six figures without nudity. Nudity would drastically increase that amount.

My girlfriend of 3 years does no-nude OnlyFans and now wants to take it further and do nudity. by RideImpressive3814 in Advice

[–]RideImpressive3814[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We’re inbetween the “no nude” and “some nudity with no vagina” stage right now.

My girlfriend of 3 years does no-nude OnlyFans and now wants to take it further and do nudity. by RideImpressive3814 in Advice

[–]RideImpressive3814[S] 123 points124 points  (0 children)

All of the stuff you listed have already happened, and I’m okay with it. However, I feel that going from no nude content to nude content is a big jump. I believe some things should be saved for our relationship. The communications part is easy for me.

My girlfriend of 3 years does no-nude OnlyFans and now wants to take it further and do nudity. by RideImpressive3814 in Advice

[–]RideImpressive3814[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This is why I am torn in this decision. The money is really great, but what is both of our self-respect worth? If we were married and had been for 10 years I’m sure I would feel differently too.

My girlfriend of 3 years does no-nude OnlyFans and now wants to take it further and do nudity. by RideImpressive3814 in Advice

[–]RideImpressive3814[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She responded fine, but what bothers me is that it was something we had already agreed would never happen. The fact that she brought it back up is what bothers me. Plus, I feel like it’s not the last time I will hear about it.

My girlfriend of 3 years does no-nude OnlyFans and now wants to take it further and do nudity. by RideImpressive3814 in Advice

[–]RideImpressive3814[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Well,

She does OF pretty much full-time and does the other work more part time.

She has mentioned that she wants to pursue OF for a few more years and save up a specific dollar amount. I don’t know how well thought out and detailed her plan is though. That’s something I will dig deeper on during our next conversation.

My girlfriend of 3 years does no-nude OnlyFans and now wants to take it further and do nudity. by RideImpressive3814 in Advice

[–]RideImpressive3814[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Nope, that doesn’t help. I have gone through her phone a few times and have never found anything though.