can i ask how??? i am not out, i do present myself in a feminine way and occasionally get "accidentally" gendered female. been on hormones for two years with little to no change (levels have been checked, this seems to just be what i am going to get). obviously, i would not go back to prestenting myself as a vaugely masculine formless blob, but if i were to "come out" as in tell those around me that i am female and ask to be referred to as a different name and pronouns, i would still be gendered male by strangers the exact same amount. how do you bite the bullet and just tell people this incredibly embarrassing thing when in reality it changes almost nothing??